When is the right time

[Blitzford72]

Good morning My poor mum of 89 has just come out of hospital after breaking her arm ,not by falling over .

But by sitting down in her chair her bone density is very poor .

She has gone back to her residential home ,who have bent over backwards for her

Changing her room so it is more suitable for her needs .

Her speech is extremely challenging and eye site and mobility is very poor ,I think now she will need more support than a residential home .

We have an appointment with her psp consultant on Wed ,so I think he might have some input ?

I just won't to do the best I can for her ,it's such a rollercoaster ride 😥

Thank you for reading

[Kelmisty]

My Mum went straight into nursing home, as it was always going to be necessary in the longer term. What does her current place think, can they provide nursing care?

Whilst it’s a big move for your Mum, it might be best to do sooner rather than later.

[messier]

I agree with Kelmisty. She won't be able to stay in residential care and you don't want to get forced out in a hurry when they can't meet her needs. Better to start looking now so that she can move and settle in before her health deteriorates further.

[Blitzford72 in reply to messier]

Thank you messier,the home have been amazing ,but I know she can't really stay there and making plans to find a new home for her But at least we do have some breathing space to find a really nice one x

[Beachut100]

Hello Blitzford72. It may help to remember that the difference between a nursing and residential home is that there is always a trained nurse on hand in a nursing home. In the future that may prove to be important for your mum for both her care and for guidance through the system. Changing homes in good time will allow your Mum and her new carers to get to know each other before the disease takes over and communication may become difficult. Sending you both good wishes.

[Blitzford72 in reply to Beachut100]

Thank you beauchut 100 Thank you for your kind words of support ,If I'm being honest with myself I already new the answer I just needed to hear it from other people too .

I have always tried to do the very best for mum and moving her to a safer environment is probably the best x