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RIP Jim xxx

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Hi all,

It's so hard to write, but I just want to let you know that my dear FIL passed away on Friday 20th December 2024. Christmas and the start of 2025 have been so hard to navigate but we have our wonderful children to carry us through this difficult time.

As some of you may know from reading my previous posts, we think my FIL had PSP for maybe 4-5 years before he was diagnosed in October 2023.

PSP didn't take him in the end, although it took everything else, his mobility, poor eyesight and finally speech. Thankfully his mind, amazingly, was so sharp. He took ill a few weeks ago, vomiting brown liquid which we thought may have been a blockage. He was taken into hospital where we were told that in fact he had kidney and liver cancer too, it was such a shock. He never returned home and spent his last days in the local hospice, of whom were absolutely amazing. Upto that point we had cared for him at home, my loyal, loving MIL of 86 years of age, 63 of those years married, nursed him until she reluctantly had to let him go as she realised that between us all, Jim needed a higher level of care that we just couldn't give.

He will be laid to rest next week, thankfully we have our faith to guide us through this uncertain time.

I just want to say that this forum has been an absolute Godsend, So informative, so supportive, so inclusive, thank you to each and everyone of you for your advice and kind words through our PSP journey.

One more thing, always, always keep knocking on those doors for help from the health professionals, they don't always know what to do, I have first hand of that along with most of you. Please NEVER GIVE UP, NO MATTER HOW HARD IT GETS.

Our PSP journey has now ended but for all of you still on this journey, I will be thinking and praying for you and your families to keep strong.🙏

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Bergenser

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Sounds like you are an amazing family so continue to look after each other and find comfort in the loving memories. I will be thinking of you through this difficult time. “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love”.🫂🌻💜

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GeorgeMMXVI

Sleep well Jim ❤️

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MullerRice

So sorry to hear of your loss. Local hospices are amazing. Sending you hugs and kisses.

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AliBee1

My love and thoughts are with you as you all negotiate this new chapter in your life. Love Ali Bee

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Harshacceptance

🙏

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Kelmisty

Sorry for your loss xx

A big hug.

Luis

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Bertieandpiper

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family x

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Birdie04

I am so sorry to hear this news, my thoughts and prayers are with you . We, my husband Adam, and I are just starting this awful journey. This forum has been a god send to me and I am so thankful for it.Family will be the strength and support you need along with your faith, this is what will get you through ♥️🙏♥️

Thinking of you all at this very difficult time, Jim is at peace now, no more pain or suffering.

Sending love

Xxx

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Leosta

Thoughts and prayers to you and the family. RIP Jim. 🙏💟

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Zerachiel

Sorry for your loss 🫂

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Diggerandsam

Sorry to hear of your very sad loss: RIP Jim. Hospices are great places and one never knows if or when they’ll be needed, which makes it so difficult to understand the mentality of someone vandalising it, which is just what happened the other day to ours !

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daddyt

So very sorry for your loss xx🙏🙏

Tim

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priest78

Sorry to hear of your loss.. RIP Jim 🙏

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bichonbear1

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

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Golden63

May the good memories that you have bring with comfort in the coming days ♥️

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carehope

Am so sorry to learn of your fil Jim's passing ❤️‍🩹 What a caring , competent, wonderful wife and family he has ! In the midst of the worst , you all brought your best 💜 Sending heartfelt condolences and lots of love to you all 🕊

Elise

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