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I'm sitting here with dad who is now in the last days.

He's been nil by mouth since Tuesday, except a tiny drop of liquid from a mouth sponge or a teaspoon and since Thursday evening not even able to tolerate the smallest drop of liquid - so had nothing at all since then.

He is the most peaceful that we've seen him in a long time and he's aware that we are with him...that else is he's snoring like a freight train at the moment!

I alongside my mum and sister are taking it in turns to sit with him. My brothers have also been to visit as have most of my dad's 11 grandchildren.

We are exhausted, but savouring these last moments with him., however we can't help but wonder how much longer he can go on.

Thanks everyone for being there...especially during these long nights x

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LostinHeadSpace

Thinking of you as you spend these last days--and nights!--with him.

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Yvonneandgeorge in reply to LostinHeadSpace

Martha thinking about you all at this sad time, big hugs Yvonne xxxx

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doglington

You're doing well. Glad to hear he is peaceful.

Thinking of you all. love, Jean x

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Satt2015

Thinking of you x

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Zeberdee

Thinking of you and your family during your dad’s last days. Jxx

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Kevin_1

Hi Martha

I'm thinking of you all too.

I'm so pleased he is peaceful.

All we can ask is that our loved ones slip away peacefully.

Warmly

Kevin

x

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Bargiepat

Love to you and your father............

Be strong for him.

Patrick.

XXX

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Spiralsparkle

Sending you all much love,peace and strength.

May your Dad have the best comfort knowing you are all with him and peace filled passing. It is all we wish for.

X

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georgeg25

My thoughts and prayers are with you at the close of your Dad's days on this Earth. x

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Blots

Hugs to all of you. I know this is not too far off for us too.

A big hug.

Luis

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Martha_k_uk in reply to LuisRodicioRodicio

Thank you. And thanks for the information you sent - it was scarily accurate for timings!

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margh2468

Thinking of you, it is a time I am not looking forward to. Just never know how much longer Hugs to you from Barnawartha, Victoria Australia

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