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Today was a year since Don died. Did I ever mention that he and our daughter died on the same day 30 years apart ? I am hurting so badly. The picture was before he really got bad.

Auddonz aka Audrey

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carehope

Dear Audrey,

Wish that I could reach out and give you a big hug ! By the way, that is a wonderful photo of you and Don .

I hope that you have great friends, beauty and music in your life every day, are fortunate to have good health despite the ordeals you have suffered, precious time for whatever makes you smile and gets you through the days, and as time goes on are able to focus more and more on great memories past and experiencing more wonderful moments today and in your future ! You are truly not alone in this crazy world which seems to hit us with way too many horrendous overwhelming things. Geez ! I'm beginning to remind myself of those disgusting self help books or pat self motivating one liners ! I swear that I am truly not that kind of person !

So, thinking of you and the weight of the sadness you are shouldering and send you caring thoughts at this rougher milestone time . The world out there needs your smile though as do you, so don't hide it away ! You have a beautiful smile ! Be well and please take good care of yourself !

Lots of love,

Elise

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Auddonz in reply tocarehope

Elise, TY for your kind words. The hurt and sadness never goes away.

Lots of love back,

Audrey

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NannaB

Sending you a great big hug Audrey ❤️ XxxX

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Auddonz in reply toNannaB

TY NannaB, Bug hig back <3 xoxo

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Auddonz in reply toAuddonz

Yiipes spelled two words wrong

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abirke in reply toAuddonz

Audrey the editer!hahaha

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Auddonz in reply toabirke

Drives me crazy when I spell something wrong :)

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vlh4444

Dear Audrey

Yesterday must have been a doubly difficult day for you, so much sadness is hard to bear and anniversaries are always difficult. I hope you are OK.

Lovely picture!

Love Vicki x

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Auddonz in reply tovlh4444

Vicki, I survived the day, but the hurt never goes away :(

Love,

Audrey

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Heady

Sending big hug and much love

Lots of love

Anne

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Auddonz in reply toHeady

Anne,

I survived the day but the sadness and hurt never goes away.

Lots of love back,

Big hug,

Audrey

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Heady in reply toAuddonz

Just another day, isn't it!

Lots of love

Anne

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Auddonz in reply toHeady

No Anne, it is not just another day.

Lots of love back.

Audrey

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doglington

Lovely picture, Audrey. Its so hard.

Big hug and love from Jean xx

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Auddonz in reply todoglington

Jean,

Yes it is very hard, the hurt and sadness is still there and will always be :(

Big hug and love back xox

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easterncedar

Lovely picture, Audrey. My sympathies on the loss of your daughter. Peace, Sarah

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Auddonz in reply toeasterncedar

Sarah,

TY for your kind words. To loose both of them on same day 30 years apart blows me away and always will.

Audrey

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abirke

No words I'm sure can comfort on this day but that I'm sayin prayers for your comfort....I'm sorry Audrey ...

Love you

((HUGS AND PRAYERS))

Andrea

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Auddonz in reply toabirke

TY Andrea.

Love you back.

Audrey

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Kevin_1

Hi Audrey

Thanks for posting this.

You guy's look great!

He seems to have a cheeky sense of humour?

He will always be with you if you keep him in your heart.

I hope the double anniversary went OK.

We're here for you.

Warmly

Kevin

xxx

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Auddonz in reply toKevin_1

Hi Kevin,

He is always in my heart along with my daughter. But the hurt never goes away. What is a cheeky sense of humour?

Warmly,

Audrey xoxo

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Yvonneandgeorge

Audrey so for the late response, had a few days away in Edinburgh Scotland. Time just flies by can’t believe a year has gone by already. Sending you a big hug lovely lady. Yvonne xxxx

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Auddonz in reply toYvonneandgeorge

Yvonne, Yes time goes by very quickly. Big hug back my friend.

AUDREY xoxo

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Marie_14

Audrey I remember when you lost Don. However I didn't know your daughter had died 30years previously to the day. That must be so very hard for you. What a handsome man Don was? So sad just like you. As you say we will probably never get over this.

Hugs.

Marie x

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Auddonz in reply toMarie_14

Marie, I try so hard to think positive but....

Hugs back,

Audrey

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Marie_14 in reply toAuddonz

Audrey

I know!! One step forward and 2 or 3 back? Take care of yourself.

Marie x

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Nanny857

Hi Audrey, hard to believe a year has passed. Thinking of you and sending my love and a big hug. Take care. Nanny857xx

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Auddonz in reply toNanny857

Hi Nanny. Time goes by so quickly. Thank you for your love and a big hug, which goes right back to you. Take care as well.

Audrey

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Tippyleaf

What a lovely photo of the two of you

Sending love and hugs at this time of reflection. Hope a few happy memories can help ease your burden

Love Tippy

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PUTLAND

Audrey so sad for you double memories. Take care of yourself. You both look so happy in the photo. Xx

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AmandaF

Hallo, Audrey,

I'm so sorry to hear you're in pain and missing your loved ones. Lighting a candle tonight for you, Don, my mum and everyone on this board who has lost someone to PSP.

Amanda.

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Katiebow

Sending my love to you and hope that you coped with the anniversary of losing both your dear husband and daughter. Too much to bare I feel. Take good care of yourself Audrey and keep on keeping on.

Love Kate xxx

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