I'm rushed off my feet so this is just a quick post to say thank you for all of the support and advice and, that things are going well.
The Nursing Home is every bit as good as we had hoped. It is very 'not and institution' with really good food and attentive staff.
Liz wants to be home, but she accepts that the care was beyond home care even with carers. Perversely that is because she is still active in her mind and so it was a full on almost 'sit in the same room' requirement otherwise she would attempt to get of the char and do it herself. I had to abandon gardening back in June because I would have to go back to the house and check her every ten minutes.
So it is I have a bit of a life back for the first time in two years. However the house is so empty without her.
Were both a bit broken hearted.
The really good news is the home is a fifteen minute walk away.
Waiving with some tears
PS - I will try to visit the site properly early next week.