We all do I know!
My father has taken a turn for the worst they say! He's been deteriorating for the last 4 years. He barely eats or drinks, his feet and hands are freezing, he constantly has chest infections and he's completely bed bound now. Within the last 3 weeks a 'end' care plan and medication needed for 'the end' is in place. His body is breaking down they say, no point taking him into hospital as there is nothing they can do different to what we are doing at home. He's very unsettled at night and is demanding but we don't know what he wants as communication is non existant.
How much more has he got to suffer?