HELP, we have finally found something to help S, with his over active bladder. A convene. Not the normal sort, it's a rubber penis, which is strapped to him with a bag hanging off! Not sexy, not comfortable, but works! Well it would, if he could keep his hands off it. I KNOW, it's uncomfortable. I KNOW it's difficult, mentally coming to terms with just going! I KNOW. It's hard, not going to the loo. When you have spent the last 70 years knowing that's what you do.
But it works, we were able to go out, without having to worry about his bladder. Life was beginning to have a tiny bit of meaning again. BUT NO, he won't, can't leave the damned thing alone. Therefore, falls out, therefore pees everywhere. Or else, decides he needs to go and we have to go through the whole business, that the convene, was meant to stop.
What do I do? I've tried the sympathetic approach, waste of space. I've tried shouting, again, no response. I am sorry, but I don't get that it's alright to pee all over the carpet, when you are wearing something to stop that. He doesnt even care he has done it, or that I have to clear up after him. I really have had enough.
I know I could put him back in pads, but they weren't working, again kept playing and never kept his penis inside the pad. Thinks the pad is for resting it on!!! If I had a sharp enough kitchen knife, IT would be put to use!!!
Bar putting boxing gloves on him. WHAT CAN I DO??????.??????
Lots of love