Been reading the comments, but decided to jump in a newbie-I always got a PSA Test, but even though it was always almost zero, after my exam several years ago, my doctor said-I think you need to see...And here I am 3 years later, cancer free, prostate removed-and like so many others, transported to a quiet, lonely isolated place, with no one to tell how I feel. I dont want to tell just anyone what is going on inside, and my spouse is not interested in hearing about what I feel and how I try to deal with it. I am here, hoping as I read other posts that I will feel more secure to open up and share. My doc had suggested groups and therapists, but unless they were gay, it just wouldn't help me. I'm retired, over 65, and sad that my life change so much so quickly-but I still can laugh and most days are great.