I have been on active surveillance for eleven years. That has now ended. For the last couple of years my PSA has been slowly rising, doubling time, 3.0 to 7.5 over 11 years. I switched treatment centers to Barnes Jewish/Wash U in St. Louis (due to relocation not an issue with my previous treatment ctr.) My new urologist strongly recommended and MRI and biopsy. I had the biopsy right after Christmas, got the results 2 days before we were leaving on a 2 week cruise in the south pacific (fortunately just before the issues with cruses there). Three positive were positive, 3+3, 3+4, and 4+4. One core 75% involved.
Not the news I wanted. My wife contacted the nurse at the prior office (we had been there 10 years and become involved in support groups. My wife had become friends with her). She suggested a book, Guide to Surviving Prostate cancer by Dr. Patrick Walsh (full disclosure I have no interest in nor know Dr. Walsh). I downloaded the book and took it on vacation to read. It was a great book to read with some sound information though the field is rapidly evolving and some some information may be old. I would recommend the book.
I had set up an appointment with a surgeon for a couple of days after return. He answered our questions directly and we had a good discussion. He was straight forward about outcomes from surgery. A week or so later we met with a radiologist that also went as well. My wife and I talked it over for a couple of days and I made the decision for surgery. The main reasons were from the MRI it appeared to be organ confined both my urologist and the surgeon agreed. By going in to take it out, the surgeon could get a look inside, the tissue would be biopsied, and radiation would be a fallback. With radiation the tissue would be destroyed in place. With radiation if there were to be side effects, they would develop over time and be permanent. With surgery they would be immediate and may be recoverable over time. I opted for the eyes on approach.
I had a laparoscopic prostatectomy on Marh 2nd, the doctor was optimistic and said the surgery went well. I received the results yesterday, lymph node negative, cancer organ confined, the amount of cancer only slightly more than the biopsy, and no evidence of cancer outside of the prostate. I could not have had better news. Next step is PSA in 6 weeks.
I have been asked if I regret my original decision. Eleven years ago I made the best decision for me at the time. Additionally I look it as 11 years of advancement in treatment, that I provided 11 years of additional experience. No regrets.
We will see what the future holds. One thing is I know I have a great partner to go through this with, she has been very helpful and has had excellent guidance.