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Bad day at the Doctor

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Today my husband and I went to his dr. Got bad news his cancer is spreading already had lots and of bone Mets, more lymp nodes and spot on liver is growing so he has decided to go off all hormone therapy and let the chips fall where they may.😢. They gave him the option of chemo now but he say no and they don’t think he is well enough. He has lost 24 lbs in 2 1/2 months so now he weighs 144 lbs. It has been almost 2 years since diagnosis. I try to support what he wants to do but it is hard. Thanks for listening😢😢

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Tub111

❤️

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strummer

So sorry, has to be tough

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NWLiving

Thinking about you. It’s going to be a bumpy ride for a while. Do you have family friends around?

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Kobina in reply to NWLiving

I do have family around very close. Thank you I am sure it is going to be pretty rough road for awhile😢for all of us. Son and 2 Grand children living with us helping to take care of the farm and all our animals. I am thankful they are here with us right now.

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NWLiving

Yes, so nice they are around. You aren’t going to have a minute to think about anything. Take care today.

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Mauvemood

Kobina, thanks for sharing what you are going through. I wish there was something I could say to make this easier. I know first hand what you are going through and it is hard. Sending hugs to you.

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