Hi Guys
It’s my first time posting over here as I had grown so attached to the fertility network but now I don’t think the following is appropriate for over there.
I am now 33+4 weeks pregnant from our 2nd IVF ICSI cycle after MCing our first.
Pregnancy has gone relatively smooth other than being diagnosed with Gestational diabetes.
At my 20week scan I was told I had a low lying placenta which should move as pregnancy progresses.
28 week scan still no progress with placenta but baby was growing fine.... estimated weight 2.9oz
At my 32 week scan last week (1st time going alone due to pandemic) this was such a terrifying experience. (Estimated weight 3.14oz)
I was being scanned as normal... and after a long silence the sonographer began asking loads of questions... she the asked to do a internal scan.. more silence.
Cutting a long story short she left the room for what felt like forever and returned with two people a placenta specialist and a consultant.
I was told my baby’s abdominal area has stopped growing, my placenta is still low lying a only moved 3mm in 4weeks and there are loose blood vessels which should basically be embedded in my placenta.
They want to see me in two weeks to decide on a plan/date of delivery... which will now almost certainly be a csection.
It’s taken me a few days to do some reading on the above and to my horror the statistics are extremely worrying... it’s a very rare condition, 1 in 5000 women experience this and 6 out of 10 babies die...😳
On hindsight I now wish I didn’t do any research as I am now so worried about my baby.
I have spoken with the doctor who has tried to assure me things will be fine as those numbers are from the people who go into natural labour which causes placenta/blood vessels to rupture which is dangerous for baby... But they do plan on removing mine earlier (36-37wks) the decision will be based on my next scan.
As if we don’t have enough to worry or be anxious about right now.... I’m so near to tears these days with a lump in my throat.😭😭😭
Thanks for taking the time to read such a long post, but I guess my real question is..... Has anyone experienced anything similar? Anyone with placenta issues?
As soon as I begin to try and forget about my difficulties getting here, then comes a reminder and my infertility nightmare continues as I’m told my recent issues are mainly found in women who have received fertility treatment like IVF 😭😢