Just need a rant DH is a n*b at times

[Cjaythom]

So let’s go back a bit. I have a beautiful DD 5 years old. Back in Oct I suffered a MMC, I should have been due this week and it’s really hit me hard. My head is all over the place, as I have friends and family who are now due / giving birth. I thought I would feel better if I conceived again, but that didn’t go well as I had another MC, but I am focused on the first loss, that’s what has hit me.

Back to why my Dh is a tool! Well I have lost a couple of his items probably due to my lack of focus and he is holding a grudge, when why I need is concern, mindfulness that I might not be thinking straight. Instead he pushes me away. Why can’t he just me kind.

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I’m so sorry to hear of your mmc. I’m sure it has been a really tough week for you and understandably you are seeking some support. Could your other half possibly be struggling with this too and may be this is making him snappy? The only reason I say this is we suffered a still birth several years ago and we handled it in very different ways. I think men are less inclined to vocalise their emotions and as a result can make them hostile or snappy. Have you tried telling him how you feel and discuss what you both need from each other? Either way I hope the pain gets easier for you in time and you get some much needed TLC x

[mrsoneill]

I’m so sorry to hear of your losses, I understand this is a difficult time and totally appreciate your mind will be all over the place. I second the reply from Bexicles, could your other half maybe be struggling and that is his way of communicating it without having to really vocalise the problem? My husband is the worst communicator when it comes to feelings it’s a struggle to get him to admit what’s really wrong he just gets angry rather than discuss his emotions. Can you talk to your other half and explain how your feeling? I hope things get better for you, sending love and hugs to you at this difficult time xx

[Cjaythom in reply to mrsoneill]

Hi both, thank you for your kindness, I suppose I’m also just angry at everything. It will come right in the end. Xx