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Hi everyone , I just want to say that I didn't think I could get any lower than I am already but i am I have not been having a good time recently and me and my Wife are divorcing on top of my health and then I met a young lady on here and I helped her and we exchanged email address and I thought that we clicked and she told me that she had a bad experience in her life and if she wanted she could talk to me anytime as I gave her my mobile number because she was struggling and she couldn't sleep and I offered to meet up with her as we don't live to far away and see how things developed but it was never going to happen because I was going through a divorce but things got out of hand because i told her my wife was threatening me over a picture of me on a ladder next door looking at neighbours kitchen roof as I'm on benefits So yesterday I told her I couldn't go on because she was still hurting from her past and I didn't want to hurt her feelings more but she then said she worked at a benefit house and would report me ..So my head is all over I don't wish her any harm but I just want to be friends but I have been called all the names under the sun and i don't deserve that so I'm now thinking of leaving again but this time for good and just speak to certain people by email who I know I can trust . I'm not blaming that young lady I just think I am to gullible. Clive x πŸ€—

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GhoundsReading Rabbits

Oh Clive, I'm so sorry to hear this....how worried you must be. Can you get some legal advice to help you through the divorce? I really hope you have some trusted "non virtual" friends nearby for support.

If you decide to leave here you will be missed but you need to do the right thing for you.

Please take good care of yourself and very best wishes.

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Thank you for your kind words , I have got a solicitor on my case . And I will get through eventually as I have a lot people who I trust on here.

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springcross

Hi Clive. I'm really sorry to hear about your problems, life can be such a bitch sometimes. I'm afraid I agree with Jerry about not sharing personal information, it's too risky as you're now finding. Do you have a solicitor regarding your divorce or legal advice as Ghounds had suggested? If not maybe it would be wise as you may also get advice about the threat from the young lady. I wish you all the best with this Clive, it's such a worry to have hanging over your head especially with your health problems too. Take care, good luck and I hope you decide against leaving. x

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Thank you springcross , I have paid a solicitor to start proceedings and I will learn from my mistakes on the young lady who I wish no harm. Clive x πŸ€—

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Good for you Clive. x

Thanks Jerry for your kind words and I have learnt but the hard way . Clive

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Hb2003

Hello so sorry about what is happening please don’t leave your a light to this community πŸ™β€οΈ. Much kindness and support πŸ™

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Thank you Hiba you are a very kind young lady πŸ™

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Your welcome πŸ™ ❀️

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I hope that your day will get better β€οΈπŸ™

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It will Hiba and I hope your day is going well. πŸ™

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Thank you i will try my best πŸ™

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honeybug

Sooo very sorry. Best wishes.

I said a special prayer for you.

Take care be safe.

EJ πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ’—πŸ˜˜πŸŒΏπŸŒΈπŸ¦‹

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Sops

Been there, not easy. Take the advice offered and stay in touch. I hope this works out and you get some piece.

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Thanks again , I'm getting there i think x

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Good!

Love ur name

First, you remind me of my brother, his name is Rock. At the beginning of the months he calls himself, Rock and Roll, at the end of the months he is Rock the bottom and when it Sundays, he is Rock of Ages. I'm sure you know wht that means😁😁

But I am sorry you are rock bottom, things are realy bad. I always say experience is the best teacher. Don't regret it tho, you have learnt from ur experience. Next time you will know what to do and not to do. Hope things turns out okay though.

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Thank you x

Hi just seen this it's not wise to give your details in here I hope things sort out for you sending hug from me and pixiebob πŸ˜»πŸ€—

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Spot on my friend and as they say you live and learn πŸ™

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jrgallaghe

NEVER give up!! I almost did myself twice but I let it pass..πŸ‘Œ

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