The loss of a loved one

[Harrywogan]

My brother dropped dead this morning and IAM in shock, should I up pred for a wee while, or can it be ok 😭

[Koalajane]

I am sorry to hear this. I think as it is a stressful time it might be good idea to increase for a while.

[PMRpro Ambassador]

I am so sorry to hear that - what a dreadful shock for you all.

It depends a bit what dose of pred you are on at present - just looked back and see you are at 1 1/2mg. Yes, I think I would up it to 4 or 5mg for a day or two at least - especially since it is New Year and the chance of you getting any medical advice now is minimal! Beyond that, see how you feel. Were you close to him? Is the family far away?

[Harrywogan in reply to PMRpro]

Thank you so much xx

[Harrywogan in reply to PMRpro]

Yes very close, only 10 mins by car xx

[Salukimama in reply to Harrywogan]

Very sorry for your loss. Take care.

[Fatsiajaponica]

I am so sorry, sending condolences and a hug🫂

[DorsetLady PMRGCAuk volunteer]

My sincere condolences .. and yes agree do update for maybe a week to get you though a very stressful time…and then see how things go. It may well depend on how much is on your shoulders.. 🌸

[Harrywogan in reply to DorsetLady]

Thanks so much DL ,will do xx

[SnazzyD]

What a monstrous shock. If ever there was a reason to increase it is now, especially if you are below 5mg.

[Nextoneplease]

so sorry to hear this Harrywogan 😟

Sending you condolences and hugs (and I agree with others, increase your pred for a few days at least) xx

[Kendrew]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. You must be feeling quite overwhelmed and bewildered by such an unexpected loss. I hope you have happy memories to help you through your grief and that these memories will also bring you some comfort and peace.

Thinking of you.

[Harrywogan in reply to Kendrew]

Thanks so much, just in shock xx

[Temeraire]

So very sorry. Thats how I lost my Dad many years ago. Huge shock for us but eventually I came to be glad that at least he didn’t suffer. We did but at least he didn’t. Take care of yourself - I would increase your pred for a few days. You’re in shock at the moment. Sincere condolences.

[Harrywogan in reply to Temeraire]

Thanking everyone for there kind words at this sad time xx

[yogabonnie]

I am so very sorry . Siblings are fun and funny and close and far and no matter what always a huge part of our lives. It sounds like you were very close it is so hard. Sending you strength take care of yourself.

[Bella59]

So sorry to hear that your brother has passed.Sudden death is a shock to family and friends.It may take some time to grasp this situation.

[powerwalk]

🌷🌷 so very sorry to hear of your loss. Such a shock for you. Sending hugs.

[2013mayo]

so sorry to hear about your loss, sending you a big hug, 🌈💐

[hill-walker]

Deepest condolences. So sad to lose a brother.

[Angelsmummy]

So very sorry to hear the awful news of your brother and so suddenly too.What a terrible shock for you and the family.Sending you all love and sincere condolences at this sad time and please take extra special care of yourself.xx💐

[Hunter134]

So sorry for your loss.Its really hard to lose a family member or a close friend.Hugs💖

[Jackoh]

So sorry to hear your sad news. Praying for comfort, peace and strength. I ‘m sure as everyone has said a small increase would be a good idea for a short time. Xx💐

[LemonZest11]

How absolutely awful for you, I’m so sorry. Look after yourself, whatever you need to get through this very difficult time. 🌹

[Stills]

sending you sympathy and understanding for your sad loss.

[bde987]

What an awful shock for you Harrywogan, and my heart goes out to you at this painful time. As to your question about increasing your pred, l will leave it to those more knowledgeable than me to advise you better than l can. What l will say though is when l went through a bereavement earlier this year when my son in law died, l really struggled with my pmr symptoms suddenly getting much worse and l had to up my Prednisalone for quite a while. I got great support on here and had a good gp who agreed with increasing my medication. I know you will have the former on this forum and hope you have the latter if needed. Will be thinking of you in the days ahead. x

[Greensleeves]

So very sorry to read this news, the loss of a close loved one is the most painful experience to endure.

You must be in awful shock, there are no words , but please know we are all thinking of you and your dear brother. Love and hugs xx

[Pinkcrocs]

Sending a gentle hug 💐What a terrible shock and great loss.

x🌼

[Pixix]

Sorry for your loss. Sending gentle hugs.

[Tiggy70]

So sorry to hear about your brother. Sending condolences and a big hug x

[Miacaro45]

There are no words that can comfort you at this time. But, know that you have a lot of people supporting you. Please take care of YOU. Sending virtual hugs.

[Telian]

So sorry to hear of your sad loss Harrywogan. You are in shock and do need to look after yourself. Condolences to you and your family. 🌺

It’s just over a year since my younger brother died suddenly.

[S4ndy]

So sorry for your loss. I agree with PMRPro that it would be a good idea to increase your pred for a few days. See how it goes. When my hubby died I was on 5mg. I didn't increase as my symptoms didn't increase. However, that was an "expected" death so I had had time to come to terms that soon he would be gone. I think I may have needed more if it was an unexpected event.Make sure you get plenty of rest. I found the time before the funeral very busy and mentally challenging. Needed extra sleep for sure.

Once again, so sorry for your loss but remember your brother will live on in your heart forever xxx

[Slowdown]

There are a lot of people thinking of you here, I hope you can take what comfort you can and feel a little less alone in your grief and shock. Take care of yourself 🌹

[Harrywogan in reply to Slowdown]

Thanks so much xx

[Whippetygirl]

Thinking of you at this very emotional time, what an awful shock it must have been for you.xx

[MDT1]

So sorry for your dreadful loss 💔

[whitefishbay]

sorry to hear this. Sincere condolences to you and your family.

[Nightingales]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter two months ago and I tried to maintain my dose but eventually I found that the grief affected me physically more than anticipated. I tried the flare protocol and it worked but when I dropped back down my symptoms were back, just like at the beginning of PMR, so much pain and inflammation. I finally had a Kenalog IM injection last week and it made a big difference. Don’t underestimate the effect of grief. Look after yourself. x

[Mfaepink1973]

So sorry for your loss, sending hugs. I’d definitely recommend taking an extra 4 or 5mg for a few days at least to help get over the initial shock.

[pink123floyd]

So sorry for you lose sending prayers and love to you and family stay strong.💝💝