Hi everyone, this forum has been a lifeline for me - thank you. It's given me the knowledge to ask the right questions and feel confident in questioning and working out a plan tailored for me.
This is quite a long read, but thought it might be of interest to people at the same stage as me. The main message being in I am in an infinitely better place than for the few months leading up to diagnosis. Since my initial post, I am coming to terms with the diagnosis. I delayed my first taper (initial dose 15mg, 6 weeks instead of 3 following advice from the forum) and was able to enjoy my family holiday in the Lakes! I had my first rheumatology appointment, I said I didn't want to take AA unless absolutely needed; they agreed to a bone scan (which is next week). The appointment was half an hour of talking, not sure it was that useful but I did ask a lot of questions and he gave me a plan (which was different to the GP plan!). I reduced to 13mg just over 2 weeks ago, felt off colour for a week or so, and had one very achy night. I'm still generally achy (upper quads, shoulders, lower back), and wake up at 4am, though usually get back to sleep. The stiffness is manageable, if a daily presence. I've had a very stressful week due to issues around my husband's work - exhasted/headache - would I be right thinking this is stress related as my poor body can't cope well anymore? I plan to aim for 3 weeks on 13mg then drop to 11mg. Bloods this week showed normal CRP of 4 - seems good (highest was 47 pre pred), is this indicating that I should be ok to taper again soon?
I've seen a physio friend who has given me gentle exercises as I want to remain as fit as possible for whenever the PMR ends! By the way, I had some sports massages pre diagnosis which had inital benefit but may have made things worse in hindsight. I have cut down on sugar and alcohol. Thinking of having therapeutic massage - have people found that beneficial?
As with many others in theirs mid 50s, the previous active me was out walking/cycling/exercising all the time, I walk every day, max. 3-4 miles (I'm hoping you don't say this is too much - not sure I can cope mentally without my walks!). Yoga (at home) has been a life-saver for me. Prioritising self care - relaxing baths (epsom salts), good friends and a wonderful husband (who cooks too!).
For those of working age - how do you balance work and PMR? My employer has been supportive and I am on a reduced hours sick note which allows me to rest when needed (I am lucky in that I can work from home combined with some in person meetings and outside trips locally). Will things get easier or am I going to need to make adjustment for the life of my PMR?
To anyone who made it to the end of this lengthy essay - phew and well done!