Please help. Vagina after birth..

[Srob11]

Hi everyone

I have recently had a baby six months ago he was a big boy 9pound 12. Anyway he was my second baby. Whilst recovering I didn’t really rest and during the days after birth I could feel my self holding my vagina as there was loads of pressure.. anyway fast fordward six months I just feel really loose and I’m quite concerned. Sorry for too much I, but when I’m on the toilet too see how it feels I would put my finger inside and do kegals , once my finger is in it’s like the walls of my vagina are not there anymore it’s more soft like bulging.. like a bag.. and kegals only push the bulge back into a normal place like my actual hole doesn’t get tighter. What should I do. And I don’t think my husband is actually sexually attracted to me anymore Down to this as we hardly ever have sex :’( please help

[daphnedaphne]

Hi Srob11 :). I’m sorry you are experiencing this. I assume you haven’t seen a Pelvic Floor Physio?? That is the 1st thing I would do if I were you. There are many different possibilities as to why you are feeling this way, but they are experts + can do a full assessment, explain to you why you are feeling different + make a plan.

[willemine]

Its to early to say this last for ever maybe your still recorvering your not one year further yet . I had rectocele after my second birth and my vagina was also not as tight anymore and didn t close itself as it should anymore . Having a ( big ) baby can give scars and lose tissue. If you are uncomfertable with it go see a genealogist. Being less tight is just a very small part of the intercorse and intimicy so don t worry to much or for your peace of mind see a doctor there are no strange questions for doctors .