I get so frustrated with pelvic pain. I always think, when I'm having a good pain day, I might actually be healing and getting better. Then the next day I'm back in worse pain again. This ugly condition plays with your mind like a cat slowly killing a cricket by ripping one leg off at a time. My wife and son leaving me during this difficult time in my life is hard enough to deal with right now; but the fact that the pain has come back after I thought I had beaten it gives me false hope and expectations. I don't want to get an exploratory surgeries done after reading most of these articles. It seems like most people were better of before it was done. My pain is functional pain right now, so I don't want to make it worse. I'm defecating in the morning and not urinating as often as before. I'm walking and stretching quite a bit. I go see my urologist again next week and I'm afraid of what he might suggest like a laparascopy. I just want another referral to a better pelvic physiotherapist that knows how to handle men wirh pelvic floor pain.
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