Sorry all! just a bad time! I don't normally 'do' despair! And why now? Cancer in remission! Sciatica tolerable! Pain relief possible! Why , oh why , do I feel like shit and can't talk about it! I am 72! I could never have expected a sex life at my age! So the stoma should not be a problem, after all, all those 72 year old men are so dull and boring! Why am I depressed? Oh ignore me! I just need a moanto sympathic friends! Most of my probs have nothing to do with the cancer and my gynae assures me that my ex's predilections for alternative partners ( over 100 I could name) was not responsible for the cancer!
Sorry just a moan! No need to reply! You all provide so much support as it is!