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It's the Little Things......

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I was unable to take my wife for treatment today due to work commitments (I am always gutted when I can't be there with her), but when her cheeky Snap Chat photo dropped in this morning it made me smile. I have had a smile on my face all day today just because of that. Looking forward to getting home in a while to see how she's doing. I am on 'dinner duty tonight', but what the hell...........Fish & Chips it is!!!

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CallmeMum profile image
CallmeMum

How is your wife doing? You haven’t been on in a while 😊

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Yoshbosh in reply to CallmeMum

I was wondering that too!

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Caroles1

That’s lovely! Hope you are both doing ok

Best wishes,

Carole

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Tempestteapot

What a lovely couple you are! Really hoping things are going ok for your wife with her treatment - and i'm sure fish and chips will go down a treat!

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Lyndy

Oooh chips! Living up to your name then?! X

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CJR99

Fab photo,love it!Thinking of you both best wishes Clare X

Well you cant be everywhere and I am sure your wife understood, and hope you enjoyed the fish and chips

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Solange

Super photo!! Hope things are going well. One of my favourite treats is when my husband takes us to our favourite fish and chip shop and we buy the food and then sit in the car to eat it. So much nicer than when we take it home. The reason that particular shop is our favourite is because I have Coeliac Disease so must have no gluten (found in wheat, rye and barley). Although I can't have batter, the owner kindly fries mine in rice flour and cooks the fish until the rice flour is crispy. Yummy!!

Didn't know whether to laugh or cry last week. The day after we'd had fish and chips the car still smelled of food so my husband half opened all the windows. Went out half an hour later to find a seagull/s had bombed the car. Not just the windscreen covered but the offside door, too, and believe it or not, into the lock, onto the steering wheel, dashboard and seat. It was foul!! Definitely a downside to living near the sea and seagulls.

Keep smiling, love to both, Solange 😊

Great photo 😃

We always got Mac Donald’s chips on way home from treatment. Something I craved. Maybe because salty ?

I’m sure your wife will love fish and chips ! Xx

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SCWI

The Magpie Cafe in Whitby do gluten free fish and chips and they are amazing, should anyone be around there this summer 😋

Lovely picture of your wife, SuperHubby, I do hope she is nearing the end of her treatment and doing well.

Xx

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January-2016-UK

Great photo. Hope you both enjoyed the fish and chips.

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Maxjor

The fact that you smiled all day was so worth the photo on your wife's part and I am sure she knows you would have preferred to be there. Great photo--if I could figure out how to do snapchap, I might try that to send to my hubby too!

ooxx

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Debonair1

Lovely pic for you to share with

Us all. Xx

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SuperHubby24

Hey Lovely Ladies! Sorry for the delayed update I had a crazy week at work and was travelling backward and forward from Bournemouth to London everyday on business. Well, the wife is doing OK. She has had treatment 5 of 6 and its the final push to get the last one done in a month or so (assuming all is well with her bloods, as she had a two week delay last time due to platelets & haemoglobin not planning ball). She looks great too! Its odd because I remember feeling this way as the last three programs of chemo neared their end. We seem to go for all this care to transitioning to trying to get on with our lives again. No doubt we will have a scan after the last one, and then they can see how effective the treatment has been. This has by far been the toughest one for her over the last ten years. Bless her, she just gets on with it. As my attention slowly turns to what the future may hold, it once again puts the fear of God in me. So, I have to tell myself to just be in the moment and not to get ahead of things. Its when I do that that I wobble! So, we look forward to the last treatment and wait and see what the future holds. Well that's not quite true, we won't be waiting! We will be living life. WE will be laughing, being crazy and going places together as a family. Enjoy the now people, for the fear of what's to come can spoil it if you let it. Easier said than done, but we have leant to live in the moment. Sending each and every one of you much love Xx

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jools53 in reply to SuperHubby24

love that sentence,just when im feeling and thinking about time etc new grandchild,putting on that brave face,what a lovely man! god bless you all your doing just fine xx

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