Update

Hi everyone, its been a while since I posted. I hope u are all keeping well. As u all know, my mother inlaw was only given days to live. She passed away on the 17th of november, I was there with her and all the family at this time. It is still really hard to deal with knowing that she is no longer with us but she is with us in our hearts. Me and my fiance broke up 4 weeks before Christmas as things got a little too much, we have started speaking again and we saw each other last week, we have decided to see how things go for us. Its been hard and I suppose grief can affect people in all different kind of ways. Love to you all, Zoe xxx

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Dear Zoe,

I am sorry that you have been having problems... but grief can bring people together or drive them apart... I had a feeling that this might happen in your case... but it is early days just give it time (not easy I know wishing you the very best thinking and praying for you both love x G x

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Thanks Gwen xxx

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Hi Zoe...

I think Gwyn's right. Emotions run high with grief and I really hope things work out well for you both. Love Tina x x

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Thanks tina, I hope so too xxx

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Dear Zoe

I am sorry for your loss and for the subsequent consequences it has on your life. As others have already said, grief has such a massive impact. I hope that things work out for you and your partner. Things just need to calm down.

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Thank you xxx

[citrine]

Sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. Wishing you all the best for the future xx

[francescahannah]

I am sorry to hear your news about your mother in law and your relationship problem. You're right that grief is dealt with in different ways and as we know men and women often manage difficult feelings white differently and some people push others away. I wish you well in whatever happens with you and your fiancée and send you a virtual hug.

Love Francesca x

[jennybutler]

Oh Zoe I am so sorry to hear of your split, and the death of your mother inlaw, Every one reacts differently to death and I am sure once you get together again things will get better for you both. And you obviously had a great relationship with her. This can only be good for your future lives hopefully together.

Love and best wishes Jenny xx