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Thank you to everyone who replied to me. I really appreciate your time and help in this matter. I have made the decision not to go and have sent a Mass card and a letter explaining why I can't go. I hope they understand but really feel that it is the safest thing to do. Thanks again. It is feels good to be able to tell you about my worries knowing that you all understand. God bless. x

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crashdoll

We understand and you have to do what feels right for you. :) keep safe.

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Sheila_G in reply to crashdoll

Thank you

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Neonkittie17

I think you made the correct decision. 💗

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Sheila_G in reply to Neonkittie17

Thank you

Light a candle. You need to look after you x

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Sheila_G in reply to

Thank you

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happytulip

I am sure that they will understand given the circumstances that we all face. They will appreciate the card and letter.

Perhaps you can get together at a later time with them to remember your friend. In my experience it's always after the funeral that is worse. When everyone has gone and the focus of the funeral has gone. Maybe getting together in the future will be a nice way to remember her?

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Sheila_G in reply to happytulip

Thank you

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Mmrr

I'm pleased you have made your decision and feel reasonably comfortable with it.

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Sheila_G in reply to Mmrr

Thank you. I do now.

You have to do what’s right for you . I know it wasn’t an easy decision x

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Sheila_G in reply to

Thank you

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sylvi

You have made the righ decision for you. I believe if you ask you could have a live stream to your computer. xxx

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Sheila_G in reply to sylvi

Thank you. I haven't heard yet if they are streaming it but it would be lovely if they did. I think now since there are no restrictions on numbers there are fewer services being streamed but I will check.

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Oshgosh

Xx

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Sheila_G in reply to Oshgosh

Thank you. x

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Green230461

We are all walking through treacle with this covid. After so long you have to keep yourself safe. Take care and God bless you. 🌺

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Sheila_G in reply to Green230461

Thank you. You are absolutely right and we are all in it together. x

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