I have a delema . I have been diagnosed with multiple autoimmune conditions with primary conditions being severe, seropositive RD, Sjogren's, Pericarditis, Osteoperosis, Bletharitis and on and on..My sister, who lives on the east coast has Grave's Disease, Fibromyalgia both of which are poorly managed. In addition she suffers from manic depression.
The issue/delema: I sent her a model train and several items for her dog. I became annoyed with her for not calling to say package had arrived. I was also intervening between her and my niece regarding custody of her grandchild. When I last spoke to her, December 25th I called her and said she could have called to let me know it had arrived and she flipped out. She has not spoken to me since. On one hand I am relieved at not needing to deal with her constant drama but I know from speaking to my niece that she has foolishly done exactly what I told her not to do and will likely loose custody as a result. I worry about her but currently have a lot of my own problems. Is this selfish ?