Hi there, I have tried every diet going, and got nowhere. I end up getting fed up with them or stressed and then put all of the weight back on and more. I have a wonderful family that try to support me but then snack on junk for supper. My eldest son is getting married in one year and I am currently a size 20. I have gotten onto the scales this morning to find I am 16 stone 9 pound!!! I have never been this weight ever before. I don't know where to start other than know I love food!!! I also hate exercise. Even at school age I did everything I could to escape exercise and always managed it. I have joined all the gyms in the area and go for about six weeks lying to myself that I am enjoying it then come home and stuff my face as I hate it! I have decided today to start writing a journal so that I can record how I am feeling, emotionally and physically. Not sure if it will help but thought it was a start??