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please could someone answer my post really upset and scared !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help

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mummymummy

What injection have they told u to have?

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2014-diamond in reply to mummymummy

To terminate the pregnancy !

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Allyemo1985

3 posts and no replies from you....! You need to give everyone more infomation . What is this injection you have been offered..or told to have? .. Don't be scared ideally your probably a little more calmer now please tell us the vital info :-)

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2014-diamond in reply to Allyemo1985

Its to terminate the pregnancy hun !

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Allyemo1985 in reply to 2014-diamond

wow ok... thats bad where did this happen at a doctors and are u in the uk? this sounds awful but did u give any indication that you dont want the pregnancy to continue?. how do u feel today too. just take it easy and dont stress if u can. congrats too :-)

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2014-diamond in reply to Allyemo1985

Its at the hospital hun uk ! They can't say ! They think it my be in the tube but don't know ? Don't understaand why they would do such a thing like that ! Iv refused till I have a scan ! Not killing my baby just on they think , or things could be ok ! That's sick ! Xx

Do you mean they want to take a blood sample?

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Had lots of blood tests hcg levels going up but slow ! But I'm only 4 weeks.

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gigglysheep in reply to 2014-diamond

Aslong as they are going up thats good. Only get concerned if they drop x

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2014-diamond in reply to gigglysheep

That's what I thought ! I'm not having a chemical injection when they don't even know ! I'm booked in for a scan 2 day ! Just hope its not to early to have it ! X thank you

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Armywag in reply to 2014-diamond

Are you 4 weeks from your last period or are you calculating it from when you think you may have conceived? If it is in your tube (you have mentioned this on one of the other posts), then it's good that they have detected it early to prevent future problems

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2014-diamond in reply to Armywag

I'm defo 4 weeks ! They are only quessing hun they even said that ! Iv had know pain nd just feel pregnant ? If it was in my tube I would be in a lot of pain which I'm not ! Know signs of anything just feel normal ? X

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Armywag in reply to 2014-diamond

So you are working it out from when you think you conceived? I only ask as doctors and midwives work out how far you are pregnant by going from the first day of your last period rather from when you conceived until your dating scan at around 12 weeks. Ectopic pregnancy symptoms usually start between 5-12 weeks of pregnancy - that is working it out from the date of your last monthly period.

You are right to wait for the scan before making any decision and I'm surprised they were trying to get you to have this injection before the scan to confirm the whereabouts of the fetus. x

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2014-diamond in reply to Armywag

From my last peroid , having the scan today

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Armywag in reply to 2014-diamond

If it's from your last period then those levels are not low. Good luck today - don't forget to let us all know how you get on!

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2014-diamond in reply to Armywag

Will do hun thank you x

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Allyemo1985 in reply to 2014-diamond

so how dis the scN go. are you 4 weeks and is everyrhinf ok? x

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2014-diamond in reply to Allyemo1985

Not good news at all xx so upset x

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Allyemo1985 in reply to 2014-diamond

Orh ((hugs)) ... Was it what they thought an ectopic? There are ladies on here who have been through just that and will give all the advice you need. I've been thinking of you all day. Xx

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2014-diamond in reply to Allyemo1985

Yes and it very rare 1 xx havnt had the guts to have the injection yet ? They. Wanted to keep me in but I refused ! Xx thankyou xx

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Armywag in reply to 2014-diamond

So sorry to hear this. Listen to the doctors though, they will have your best interests in mind. Please bear in mind that if you don't take the injection and it grows, it might damage your tube but I'm sure you are well aware of that. x

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Allyemo1985

your right to not agree until you have had a scan. if its is in th e tube then it will be right to terminate. because you may have a really bad time. imsure someone has experience of this that may be able to advise you. keep us i formed on how itgoes pester for a scan asap. wish u the best of luck in both ways x

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2014-diamond in reply to Allyemo1985

Thank you will do scan is today ! Fingers crossed x

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candiceandsesame

Good luck for your scan. If you are still early don't worry if they don't see a heartbeat thats normal. In the early days they can only see the sac x

fingers crossed for ya xxx

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2014-diamond in reply to candiceandsesame

Thank you so much x

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mumofone2009

wow I'm surprised at them for asking you to do this with out proper evidence from a scan. I hope everything goes ok for you and good luck hun x

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2princes1princess

Wishing you all the best today xx

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kbear

answers.yahoo.com/question/...

Guideline to hCG levels during pregnancy:

hCG levels in weeks from LMP (gestational age)* :

3 weeks LMP: 5 - 50 mIU/ml

4 weeks LMP: 5 - 426 mIU/ml

5 weeks LMP: 18 - 7,340 mIU/ml

6 weeks LMP: 1,080 - 56,500 mIU/ml

7 - 8 weeks LMP: 7,650 - 229,000 mIU/ml

9 - 12 weeks LMP: 25,700 - 288,000 mIU/ml

13 - 16 weeks LMP: 13,300 - 254,000 mIU/ml

17 - 24 weeks LMP: 4,060 - 165,400 mIU/ml

25 - 40 weeks LMP: 3,640 - 117,000 mIU/ml

Non-pregnant females: <5.0 mIU/ml

Postmenopausal: <9.5 mIU/ml

check this hcg table out for average rises in HCG levels ..are you sure you are 4 weeks because if you were five weeks your HCG levels shoot to the roof.. see table above..i wouldnt let anyone jump to any sudden conclusions until this scan is done.. Dont let that figure scare you... when you are pregnant this figure does rise... when it rises sometimes this can be normal ...see what the scan shows up and hopefully everything is ok... what you were saying is worst case scenario..

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manxmarie78

No!! They can't do that! I've never heard of this happening before.

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manxmarie78

Good luck ! Let us know how you get on with the scan x

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2014-diamond in reply to manxmarie78

Been told my twins but because my hcg levels are low they said it still. Doesn't look good , but I'm staying postive ,xx

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candiceandsesame

How did you get on? I hope its all ok xxx

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Naya14

Hi there, Even at 4 wks, they'll still b able to see a tiny little something on the scan....as hard as this may be, try to relax n stay as calm as possible, get a second opinion from a private obs and gynae person if u're still unsure,

Good luck

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