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This is an email I had sent to a very frightened young women (23) I had met at my neurologists office. MS is affecting her optic nerve.

Dear Michele,

I am sending you this email in response our conversation this morning. It is my understanding that you have recently been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis

I hope this note may be of some help.

I have suffered with MS since being diagnosed in 1986-and consider myself fortunate, loss of sensory abilities, muscle spasms, weakness and loss of balance have all effected me but it is only within the last 7 years that I can’t drive and only within the last 4 years that I have had limited individual mobility, I am now in a wheelchair.

MS is an insidious autoimmune disease with no cure it effects each individual differently and the progression is different for everyone that is effected. The disease attacks the coating of the body’s nerve endings and leaves a scar (sclerosis) which stops the body from its normal nerve functions. That is a very scary diagnosis but there is hope.

The only remedy for guys like me years ago was to load me up with steroids, now there are a host of disease modifying treatments available still no cure but a real measurable delaying of the progression.

In the past thirty years I have learned what helps with MS.

1. JOIN the National MS Society, MS Foundation and the MS Association of America they are a wealth of information, you are not alone, these organizations report the latest research and successes, club activities and may help with such things as cooling vests so you don’t overheat to body lifts to help you to get up from the floor when you fall because you have limited balance and muscle abilities. The MS Society and MS World Inc. have great monthly publications and the Indiana chapter of the MS Society is also very helpful with programs and information. The Indiana chapter of the MS Society supplied me with stretching guides that I use to help with my spasticty.

2. DO NOT put your faith in any neurologist in Northern Indiana I have gone thru a few over the years ranging from totally incompetent to really nice guys who may or may not help but to get ahead with this disease make an appointment at the Mellon Center at Cleveland Clinic in Ohio or Rush University Hospital Neurology Department or University of Chicago Neurology Department in Illinois. Check medical coverage to see who is in network.

3. MUST CHANGE DIET this is tough but can not articulate how important this is, we are what we eat and it affects everything with MS. I can recommend three cookbooks; Runners World Cookbook, Mediterranean Diet Cookbook there a bunch to choose from and The American Heart Association Cookbook when you seriously change your diet good things start to happen but it is very difficult to get into the routine but I believe it does help slow the progression of MS dramatically.

4. GET AS MUCH SUN AS POSSIBLE, expose as much skin as you are comfortable with weather permitting, all is best but some is good. The more exposure the more vitamin D your skin naturally produces, up until the last few years MS was known as the white mans disease the highest concentration of people with MS per 100,000 is Scotland and Finland the lowest being counties like Indonesia and Brazil therefore a lack of vitamin D may contribute to the disease. Exposure to the sun in moderation is good, I also take a vitamin D tablet daily, no definitive clinical proof but I think it may help can’t hurt.

5. AVOID EXTREMES IN TEMPATURE, too cold causes problems and too much heat and humidity really causes problems just try to stay in 70 and safe and outside when possible but again be careful not to overheat or get chilled.

6. AVOID STRESS IF POSSIBLE, like diet and lack of vitamin D no definitive clinical proof, that I known of but I believe we experience a lot of stress in daily living which I believe is a contributor. Try not to worry and be happy.

7. THERE IS SOME HELP WITH MEDICATIONS, the vast majority of disease modifying MS drugs are tier 5 specialty drugs which are very expensive, organizations such as Patient Access Network (PAN) Foundation and other foundations try to offset costs. These organizations rely on donations to help fund their programs they can help or not help according to their current funding if nothing else it is worth applying for assistance.

I hope this note is helpful I imagine many of my recommendations can easily be refuted but this is what has worked for me. Just remember that you have to get up every day and continue to swing the bat do not go gently into night, fight against your fate and fight against this injustice to your life, we certainly did not ask for Multiple Sclerosis but we do have to live with it.

Sincerely,

Favorite Quote:

“In the midst of winter, I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.” Albert Camus

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jimeka

Great advice. 👍

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RoyceNewton

for Michele, G'day, join this group and ask questions. The advice above is pretty good. Find and take the strongest Disease Modifying Therapy (DMT) sooner rather than latter. Then rerlax a bit you have a very long road ahead of you. It will be ok, you can do this, we will help you are not alone.

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DM0329

Thanks for sharing these words of wisdom! :)

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kandykone1

Thanks for sharing. I needed to hear this Today. I’m 2 years dx and on my 2nd Neurologist I’m not settling until I’m happy.

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mm1527mm

Great letter!

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MarkUpnorth

That was a great note. She can learn a lot here. Glad you didn't skip healthy eating as I feel it has been the #1 thing that helps. From having had optic neuritis 7x, working an air traffic controller's like high stress job for decades, to every imaginable thing that could go bad, including getting lost in the fog for years, to now walking without assistance anymore, and doing great! No I'm not battle wound free from M.S., I still carry around lots, but I'm relapse free for over 5 years, and my Neuro expects I may remain so from now on, as this M.S. expert has told me of others after many years with it. Enjoy the ride! It's like the rollercoaster through H E double toothpicks, but you can get through it, minimally wounded? It will take getting used to. My best advice, avoid all the processed "food" society now lives on. Eat as healthy, natural as you can.

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DIsneyQueen

Great job. Thanks for providing such support so this young lady. You articulated it well.

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mrsmike9

My neuro is in Fort Wayne Indiana (northern Indiana) and specializes in MS. No problem with him so don't paint them all with the same brush.

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Ruadh

Talking of diets -

Two diets promoted for MS, low saturated fat Swank and modified Paleolithic - a review of two popular eating plans within the Multiple Sclerosis Community :

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ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articl...

Dr Swank's Saturated Fat and Modified Paleolithic Diet and -

Wahls Elimination (WahlsElim), are currently being investigated for their effect on MS-related fatigue and quality of life (NCT02914964). Dr. Swank theorized restriction of saturated fat would reduce vascular dysfunction in the central nervous system (CNS). Dr. Wahls initially theorized that detailed guidance to increase intake of specific foodstuffs would facilitate increased intake of nutrients key to neuronal health (Wahls™ diet). Dr. Wahls further theorized restriction of lectins would reduce intestinal permeability and CNS inflammation (WahlsElim version)

The Dr Terry Wahls diet. Dr Wahls is an MS sufferer, was wheelchair bound, now running marathons and doing endurance bicycle rides for research.

Dr. Terry Wahls | MS Recovery & Wahls Protocol [Official]

The official website of Dr. Terry Wahls, MD, Author & TEDx speaker who has recovered from Secondary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis by using The Wahls ...

I would also thoroughly recommend checking out LDN, Low Dose Naltrexone, see : ldnresearchtrust.org group. Here's a bunch of podcasts put out under the Research Trust's umbrella : vimeo.com/ldnresearchtrust

Another publication, “The Power of Honest Medicine” which is dedicated to LDN, written by Julia Schopick.

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