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I haven't checked in, in awhile. Life has been so stressful since last October. As you may remember I lost a sister to suicide in October, followed by 2 other family members in October. Then in November I lost my husband and by the end of December I had lost a total of 7 family members. Added to that , I lost my home and had to move into assisted living. What a joke that was. They gave me one price when I moved in then raised their rates significantly 2 weeks later. I stayed for a bit then decided enough was enough. I moved back to Eastern Washington where I grew up and had family. Since moving here I have had to move twice. I am finally settled in a home I hate! Once my sister starts bringing in money we can start making improvements on the place. I bought an old mobile home because it was cheaper than rent.

The move to Washington was very rough. The moving company broke and stole many of my items. I am still trying to get reimbursement for them. Most likely I will never get reimbursed according to the attorney general. I found out there is an active case against them but it is very hard to get money from them. I am out about $3,000 between items damaged beyond repair and items stolen.

2 weeks ago I went for my annual mammogram and they found a suspicious area. The results of my biopsy came back yesterday and it is breast cancer.

I am devastated and wondering when the hits will stop coming. I am trying to keep a positive attitude but for the last 9 months my life has been hell. Add to all of this my MS and my diabetes and life is fun, NOT. I am thankful that I am in a good church and receiving help and encouragement from them.

Please pray for me as I continue to work through my struggles. I know I will persevere and conquer this but it is a struggle.

Jacqui

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I am so sorry for all that you are going through. You have great strength to be able to handle it all. You are in my prayers.

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Ah Jacqui! My heart goes out to you! Hold your head high love as this to will pass!

~May You Be Wrapped In The Wings Of Angels~

๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•

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Thank you

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Juleigh21

I am so sorry about all youโ€™ve been through! Praying ๐Ÿ™

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Thank you

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Kenu

Prayers are with you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ Hope that things improve ๐Ÿ‘. You have had enough bad luck ๐Ÿคฌ. Moving companies are getting terrible now days. I was a claims adjuster and for the most part homeowners insurance was only way to get money back for stolen and damaged. If they werenโ€™t licensed and bonded itโ€™s really hard. Sorry for your loss ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜‰ Ken ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿพ

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Bygonelinesโ€ข in reply toKenu

Thank you. The problem I had is they are licensed and bonded. They are not the company I hired. The job was subcontracted out to them so they claim no responsibility and of course the company I hired also claims no responsibility. I had already sold my home so I had no home owners insurance to file with. The AG's office said I will probably never see my money and if I do it will only be about $300 because the movers pay by the pound on damaged goods, not by the cost. Of course the cost of the items was over $2,500.

I learned a tough lesson.

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Oh, my dear! That is so much to carry on your shoulders, and I pray that God will lift them off and give you exactly what you need for each moment and each day. Thank you for telling us about these things. You may always vent here, for we have soft shoulders.

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Bygonelinesโ€ข in reply togreaterexp

Thank you

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SueAB

Oh, Bygonelines! First of all let me say how good it is to hear from you, old friend! You have certainly been hit hard, but are still standing! Sending good thoughts your way and hoping for better days ahead!

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Thank you

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falalalala

I will.

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Bygonelinesโ€ข in reply tofalalalala

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rjoneslaw

I am so sorry for what you are and have gone through. I will PRAY for you

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Thank you

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Raingrrl

Iโ€™m glad you checked in as I was wondering how you were doing. Iโ€™m so sorry for all youโ€™ve been through. Thatโ€™s a lot for anyone to deal with so be proud of yourself for making it through and not giving up. You have a lot of strength!

Are you dealing with the Attorney Generalโ€™s office in Washington State? Their consumer division was really helpful when I had an issue. I hope you are able to recover some of the damages.

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Momjules

You must be very strong to deal with this.

Good luck to you

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Doubled51

Wow. You certainly have gone they some hard times. So sorry for your pain and losses.

Praying things get better for you soon.

God bless

Donnie

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๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’Many Prayers& Blessings for you Jaqui!๐Ÿ’—Jazzy๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ’œ

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Oh my goodness...I am thankful for church assistance too..i think going thru all this you must say..it hasn't killed me and darn im climbing backup again..thats it!You will be able to give knowledge, love, compassion even more when this is done.You have wisdom.Those who rip you off..will get their dues one day for sure.I have been homeless but not heartless..you will settle in and life will be good.do you hear me!

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