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I get really annoyed when people say "oh, you're out and about and driving, you must be feeling better".....NOT!!!! Went to grocery, arms gave out, legs tired. HOT

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RoyceNewton

No I am just sick & tired of the four walls at my house, just because I am disabled does not yet make me a house bound invalid, but thank you for your concern.

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Kellyj44

If someone can't say anything nice they shouldn't say anything. Shouldn't assume you're feeling better just because you have to get things done. I would be very annoyed myself. I totally understand where you're coming from.

Have a good day. Hope you feel better soon.

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Rndcowart in reply to Kellyj44

You of course, know how it is. Some good days, some in between days, some bad days.

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ssdw1958

Just what you don’t want to hear they could say I’m glad to see you. No there are so many rude people in the world. I can’t stand it when someone finds out that I am retired and say you must love that and I say no I rather be working.

That shuts them up fast.

I feel your pain.

Oh and by the way, when you go out an about have a great day.

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Allen5280

Then there's the.... well you look good! ... When I am having some of the worst days... It may be just trying to be polite or... They just can't see... I have slipped up a couple times and replied with "Either your lying, or your blind... So which is it"? When I'm hurting, and it's all I can do to keep from reverting to the fetal position in the middle of the floor, to hold my tongue. Espically when they happen to be here because I reached out and needed help. There never around when I'm doing ok, don't return calls or texts, are just to busy. They do respond when I leave an urgent message and that's all well and good but then ... it makes me feel as if I'm being accused of not really needing assistance and I am just to much trouble. Their assistance comes at to high a price, my dignity. I'm not a proud man any longer by any means, however I do have a little self worth left, don't strip that away as well. I know they can't comprehend but it has taken a circle of friends and stripped it down to solitude.

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