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I am so sick and tired of hurting everytime i feel better something else goes wrong and i am tired of my boyfriend saying ohhhh come on now, now he is a good guy and i think he is just joking but i am tired of hearing it lol

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MsGelfling1

What is causing you to hurt? I'm sure your boyfriend doesn't mean any harm. He's extremely unaware of just exactly how you feel. Try a good hot shower and a cup of tea. I'm sure that combination will cure cancer. It sure is a help to me and my MS

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janetb1968 in reply toMsGelfling1

A cup of tea is a miracle worker but then I am a Brit lol xxx 😊😊😊🍵🍵🍵🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

in reply toMsGelfling1

OHHHH man let me tell you well feb, 28th i was attacked and the guy broke my nose in 3 places and my cheek and i have concussion syndrome wow on top of the pain i feel every day from the cancer and the m.s.

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Kenu in reply to

😲 attacked and beaten up 🤷🏼‍♂️ I feel sorry for you 😢. Hope things are ok and you are healing well 🤷🏼‍♂️🙏 I know what you mean about MS and Cancer 🤬 How much more can you deal with 🤷🏼‍♂️. Let us know how your recovery is going 🤷🏼‍♂️ My prayers are with you 🙏🐾 Ken

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janetb1968 in reply to

Oh God I hope ur all right xxxx 😯😯😯😯

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A big me too! I get so sick and tired of it all too! Phone alarms every few hours for meds, can't go anywhere without making sure I've got my little pill bottle of meds, bottle of water, whatever toiletries I might need, (Just in case) Then get out to the car and remember I forgot my cane. and on, and on, and on. The I get tired in the pm and doubt my own memory and if I've done too much that day, my balance is so wonky that I am literally bouncing off walls. If I want to prepare a really nice dinner, I make it early in the day so I don't forget a thing. Yes, I agree. I'm tired of it and want my old life back.. But then, I wouldn't of learned to appreciate when everything is good, when I do have a good time and especially I wouldn't have the wonderful family I have found here in this forum. Hang in there, Your boyfriend is probably a good guy and just perhaps ask for a little help now and then so maybe he will have better understanding of what you are going through. We are here for you!

in reply toCalfeeChick

yes he is a great guy, lol

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Kenu

It’s hard for people to understand what MS entails unless they have been around it🤷🏼‍♂️. Maybe give him some MS reading material to learn more about it and how it effects you 👍 Good luck and hang in there 😉🙏🐾 Ken

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Babslover

My husband jokes and says “it’s all about you “. 😊

in reply toBabslover

that is how he is lol he is always saying ohh your gonna play the m.s. card ohhh now the cancer card lol

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Fancy1959

Sandras1, it's Fancy1959. Try to focus on the positive aspects of your life. 12 laying on the negative or reoccurring symptoms that drag you down will only defeat you mentally and defeat your soul. You need to find better outside support, like this chat room. Also need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend about the ins and out of fighting this monster. Explain to him that his flippant attitude, even if it's just a joke, is weighing on you heavily and you do not have any more patients with it as such. Let us know if you need assistance from us. Don't be afraid to ask. That's what we're here for! Until we speak again please take care and remember together we are stronger. Fancy.

SO AS YOU ALL KNOW I HAD BREAST CANCER LAST YEAR AND WAS ATTACKED IN FEB. AND GOT A BROKEN NOSE AND CHEEK AND CONCUSSION RIGHT SO I GO GET MY MAMMO LAST WEEK FOR THE 6 MONTH CHECK UP WELL A 30MIN MAMMO TURNED INTO A 6 HOUR APPOINTMENT WITH ULTRA SOUND AND BIOPSY WELL GOT THE NEWS LAST THURSDAY I HAVE CANCER ON THE RIGHT SIDE NOW DIFFERENT KIND OF CANCER BUT IT IS THERE AND NOW I HAVE TO GO IN FOR SURGERY WEDNESDAY YA ME, I WAS TELLING THIS ALL TO MY NEUROLOGIST AND SHE SAYS YA AND YOU ALSO HAVE TO DEAL WITH M.S. LOL wow please let the wind blow and bring brighter days to me please lol oh i am sorry it is all in caps i didnt realize it until now. so pray for me all oh and i am having legal issues with my aunt wowowowowow some people can be so greedy. Oh and since starting the cancer crap last march 2017 i have gained over 80pounds ya m.s. drugs and cancer drugs lol, oh and i get a call from my doctor yesterday saying my liver enzimes are up again wow in 2014 i had surgery to help my liver and it worked but i think all the weight i have gained this year is the cause so hopefully getting the ok to get off the recliner maybe i can start walking on my treadmil again

oh and if any one is having problems with their computer i just fixed mine with all these changes that chrome and the internet is going through it is blocking certain sites

I cant make a new post does anyone know how or why this isnt working

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