being cheating on💔💔💔

[Yanshiva]

after almost 4 years of relationship I discover that he is cheating on me he is with another girl for almost 1 year and with me at the same time💔💔💔💔 everything was just a lie 😖😖❌❌ having a depression and anxiety and now break up with the person that was literally my all world 😪😪😪💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔 I did everything for him he has no excuse😔😔😔😖😖😖😖

[Yanshiva]

If he loved me he wouldn't cheat on me or lie to me 💔💔💔💔 if he really loved me he wouldn't hert me 💔💔💔😣😣😣😖😖😖

[Ester_1 in reply to Yanshiva]

This has happened to me 3 times in long term relationships. It’s one of the worst feeling to think that someone who loved and adored you could hurt you so badly. Once you have passed the stages of emotions your go thru from sad to mourning to becoming angry your start to see where all the problems were and realise he in fact has done you a massive favour. Your blinkers will be off, your see him for what he was. At the same time be grateful for the time your shared and the time you had because it wasn’t all bad. Focus on you now (self care) fine who you are and love you first before even considering another relationship. All this pain will ease trust me. You don’t want someone like this in your life, he has open the door to bigger and better things. Have your cry and get up! Don’t allow anyone to make you feel so low. Get out, meet friends, have some fun. It’s all sounds easy and I know it’s not but you will 💯 feel the benefits. Remember your worth.

Wish you good luck and lots of happiness ❤️

[Yanshiva in reply to Ester_1]

Thank you a lot I needed to hear this 😭🙏🙏🙏❤ its very difficult situation to find out that you were not enough for someone was ur everything and was more than enough to you

[Hidden]

Yanshiva

Walk away and leave Him to His own deception, once something like this happens especially if the other relationship has been active for so long it may be He is Playing you both.

the Relationship will fail in the future anyway. If you do marry maybe He way remain true to form and make life so uncomfortable.

BOB

[Yanshiva in reply to Hidden]

no he is not with her anymore he broke up with her too and I broke up with him he tried to get me back by telling me it was a big mistake and he is so sorry and he will never do this again ......... But I didnt accept 💔💔💔💔💔💔🙈🙈🙈🙈 even tho I love him so so so much we were perfect together we didnt have any problem nothing

[Hidden]

Its time to take care of you..then a good person will come into ur life.

[Yanshiva in reply to Hidden]

I think I need my self more 😔😔😔 more than anything in the world 🙈