Abondment issues

[IBS_Problems]

I feel like I upset her she’s not answering my messages on snap but is liking my s*** on fb and now I’m worried I upset her 😔

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If you are asking your partner to come talk at the snap of your fingers many people here will possibly agree that is not a good way to run a relationship. She has her own responsibilities or may be discussing work etc.

You need to give a little and understand she has Her own life to live and it may not be possible to reply to you toot-sweet.

It would seem you need to allow some slack in the relationship or you will need to look for a new Relationship

BOB

[IBS_Problems in reply to Hidden]

She’s a friend and she normally replies straight away (her job she is allowed her phone). And it’s not asking where she is or to come to me it’s just like texting you know when people don’t reply straight away I panic that I upset them and they will leave

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Do you not feel Her employer may be getting annoyed at the interruption of work if or when you phone up, She has a job to do. and if she is distracted to many times she could loose Her job. This could be a reason why sometimes She is unable to contact you straight away.

I understand you suffer panic attacks, sometimes I am very much the same, although now generally we are always both together and my Wife watches over me

Sometimes Panic Attacks can cause other problems, people who care for the sufferer become tired and suffocated with the attention and demands of the sufferer. It would be a shame if you lost your friend. You need to try and pull away a little or the result of your excessive needs you loose this friendship.

BOB