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I'm 18 and did my circumcision 2 weeks and 3 days ago. Today I masturbated for the first time, and I'm desperate right now.

The pleasure I find now is like not the half compared to which I had with my foreskin. I feel mutilated. Can I improve my pleasure or I'm just doome forever? If I can, please, how?

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timmyboy20

Two weeks is way too soon for starting to masturbate again. Stop doing it because you may gonna damage something. Wait at least another two weeks. I think that's also the reason why it wasn't that pleasurable. I'm myself circumcised five years ago at 17 yo. I can assure you that sex as well as masturbation is more pleasurable. Just wait until everything is fully healed and then start masturbating with lube (coconut oil is great). You gonna see that the pleasure will be fully back again!

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serog in reply to timmyboy20

Thanks for your comment, man, really. I did it now because i haven't felt pain while doing it, but now that i think about, my skin was kinda bonded, you know? Just first time doing it, i'll wait for the next time. Thank you for the top about the lube though.

Maybe i'll come back here to tell everyone how it felt like, you really relaxed me here.

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serog in reply to timmyboy20

Hey, could i ask you something? What kind of operation you had?

I did a search and found out that there are different portions of foreskin that can be left, and, in my case, all of it was took of, making it a "low and tight" one. Doctor didn't even mentioned it.

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Mrven in reply to timmyboy20

That's good advice. I'm in healing process now too. 20 days. No doubt am itching for sex and masturbation. But I think i need to wait it out a while longer 😅

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MrMac99

Hi serog, it is too soon to judge everything is still healing up. it is also a new learning experience for you. You will need to use lube and find the best technic for your self. sometimes it can feel numb at first. Did you have it done for phimosis?

I'm nearly 6 years now and I find it better than before but it is different I last longer now and it's more intense.

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serog in reply to MrMac99

Yeah, i did it for phimosis. Too much skin there. Thanks for the tip!

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MrMac99 in reply to serog

No problem man this is a big change for you from having phimosis, how is your sensitivity to clothes?

It will be fine just leave it for a bit longer before you try again and take it easy use some lube coconut oil is very good or bio oil can be used and it would help with your scar. you can get some swelling or puffiness afterwards as well that is normal and it may feel numb at first, but this gradually fades. it can take up to a year or more even before the scar and skin feels normal again. But don't worry it will all improve😊

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serog in reply to MrMac99

Hey, could i ask you something? What kind of operation you had?

I did a search and found out that there are different portions of foreskin that can be left, and, in my case, all of it was took of, making it a "low and tight" one. Doctor didn't even mentioned it.

Still waiting to masturbate though.

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MrMac99 in reply to serog

Hi Man, that's no problem you can ask me anything. I had a low and tight cut if you have a look at my post you will see how it looks.

that is true there are different styles of circumcision low and tight means most of your inner foreskin is removed, low meaning the scar is closer to your glans.

and high and tight or loose means most of your inner foreskin is left and more of your outer foreskin is removed meaning your scar is further up your shaft away from your glans. Loose or tight then means how much skin is removed or not sometimes you with a high and loose you can have bunching up behind the glands or even with the foreskin coming down on the glans halfway when you are flaccid.

I hope this is understandable and answers your question in some way.

I think some doctors just do it one way and they don't give you an option it's just the way they do it. in my case I had LS and most of my inner foreskin needed to be removed.

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serog in reply to MrMac99

Yeah, mine is exactly like yours. I just keep thinking about it, if i did the right thing. Mostly if i should've tried do have sex with it intact. I'm kinda sure that not feeling anything when ejaculating with my glans exposed and experiencing pain at my balls after doing it wasn't normal, but idk.

I'm just really curious to see everything heal up and play with it again.

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MrMac99 in reply to serog

Hi serog, I'm sure everything will be fine when you get used to the new experience. it will be different but just as pleasurable when you are fully healed. I think you said you had phimosis it probably would have been painful for you to have sex that way you can get little cuts and tears in the foreskin which can be painful. At first I found it to be a big difference as well but after time when everything is healed it will be fine. at first I found mine felt numb and everything felt tight, my scar and there was some swelling but it all gets better and you'll get used to the different way of doing things, you definitely will need lube at first but at this stage I don't always have to use it now although it is more pleasurable using it I find. I think women much prefer, it's cleaner and better for BJ's.

Are all of your stitches out they can be a problem and how is the sensitivity with clothes?

And don't mind that anti circumcision guys on the forum.

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Carry123 in reply to MrMac99

How long ago did you have yours done? I’m over a year out and still feels pretty numb.

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MrMac99 in reply to Carry123

Hey, I had my circumcision 6 years ago now. it probably took a year before I started to feel that it was normal again. Do you use lots of lube that helps with the Sensation

There is absolutely no need to panic. You should probably wait longer before masturbating - you’ve only been circumcised a very short time. Let it heal. Masturbation will be different and you will need to discover new techniques but that doesn’t mean that it won’t be as good or even better than before. I have a tight circumcision and I love it. My partner loves it. All her previous partners were uncircumcised and she much prefers my penis. If you really don’t like it in months/years to come then yes, consider the advice above. But give it time first. You might grow to love it.

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Tedboyg

Give it time I wamk 3/4 times a day most days and love it you will soon and best time Is when getting sucked off by Mrs good luck

Don't pay any attention to the anti-circumcision troll here, trying to make you feel bad. There are some great posters here that can give you some great advice.

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BearPaw

If you rip it open masturbating it could take months to heal. Stop! 4-6 weeks is the earliest and even then you need to be gentle. Things are still healing and will feel different in a few weeks.

Do not worry. Time to time it varies. Gradually you will be adjusted

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At1012

Did they remove your frenulum? I have to assume they did considering you were circumcised for phimosis. It’s probably a low and tight circumcision, which takes away almost all the sensitive tissue. Where is your scar line? Do you have any moveable skin while erect?

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Blueblaise

Hi serog, many males have reversed the condition by growing back their foreskin. Sounds crazy, But can be done with patience, don ‘t give up. Many techniques and devices online. Let me know if you have problem finding anything and I’ll link them here, if I am allowed to.

That's way too early. Wait until at least one month( as two weeks get passed now, just wait for 2 more weeks). You feel not pleasurable as before because you busted your nut while your wounds are in the healing process. You will definitely love the intensity of your self-pleasure time after it healed well. Just wait for bro, we all went through the same situation.

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Carry123

Hope you stopped for a few weeks after that last post. I gave it a good month. It’s def not as pleasurable now, but with lube or baby powder it can still feel pretty good. You’ll have to relearn how to make yourself feel good. And focus on the positives, like you don’t have an issue with tight foreskin anymore and, if you live in the US, everyone prob likes the Way it looks better. (And no one even pretend like that’s not true) ;)

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