Pete's post

[Petersilver]

Yes Hi my name is Peter wakley age 59 year's my partner did not want me when come out of hospital with kidney problem I have Lost my job & car & also my partner I am so up set with myself everyday I can not for get of my problems I almost cry every night Because most of all is my partner I miss so much so I am trying to get myself back in order of my penis problems before is to late of my life anyway thank you for reading my post

from Peter wakley of Leamington spa

[jaglad]

Look at your life as a whole, then work on the bits you can change easily or the ones you most want.

Try and talk to your wife, see what has gone wrong, and work it through.

Did you lose your job as a result of being in Hospital ?

if so, that is not right and you should have some recourse.

Above all, do not give up, look at alternatives, onward and upward !

[Petersilver in reply to jaglad]

Yes i have also kidney problem I was told by Doctor has informed my Employer of this so they finished me for 46 year's has done my security services since I was 17 year's until now my age is 59 year's old so I am trying to get my penis back in order before i get to old as now I am half century now not long has is only 50 year's left of my life so I wish can get this problem of my penis back in working order as I can not come anymore of seaman Bor have a erection anymore so I hoping something can be done as I will be happy again as at the moment not happy of crying so much every night has I missed my Loving partner not my fault this has happened so I say a nice thank you to all persons who are so helpful and advice you give is wonderful from Peter wakley of Leamington spa

[jaglad in reply to Petersilver]

I hope your employer gave you retirement through ill health ?

If not I would be looking at proceedings for unfair dismissal.

Have you tried talking to your partner to find what caused this and if there is a solution ?

[jaglad in reply to jaglad]

£6000 for over 40 years does not seem much, you should really take that further. Why did your Dr inform your employer ? Do not think kidney problems would require notification. I think your Dr has overstepped their authority.

[Petersilver in reply to jaglad]

Yes they do as with kidney failure you are not fit to work is by Law as you can be find to £1000 pounds as I checked and you are not allowed to Drive as i had to scrap my ford focus which was not a old car so I am up set i Lost everything in this I say is a crap year I find is the worse year this 2019 I Lost partner & home & job & car so is the worse year ever and now I have to go in a house wardens home for life I can not go anywhere as can not walk far as out of breath so this why not allowed to work ever again as Doctors said to me & sign me of work for good as not fit for any work at all so yes this year worse ever I say anyway thank you for your Lovely kindness reply is very wonderful from you thanks again my Lovely friend from Peter wakley of Leamington spa Warwickshire England

[jaglad in reply to Petersilver]

That is very sad, I had no idea that is what happens. I still think your employer has treated you very badly and you should speak to citizens advice about it.

Hopefully if you in a warden controlled home there will be people you can speak to. Could you arrange for your wife to visit and talk things through ?