As much as I've tried since suffering my ABI during TB meningitis, my get up and go has got up and buggered off somewhere that it has no intention of letting me find.
Whilst this is occasionally a mild inconvenience to me, it is tantamount to a chronic case of haemorrhoids to my wife who fails to sympathise.
So many of my new traits are an inconvenience but I've learnt to accept and even embrace them. Whenever I've spoken to docs, they always ask if I'm bothered by it, and I reply no, but it bothers my wife so it's a problem for me?
Does anybody have any suggestions or advice for handling a problem like this in a relationship?