Hey I have SLE for over 3years It became active at 19 and I was diagnosed at 21 and I am still struggling health wise sore joints tiredness ect. Even though my bloods come back fine. I am having more trouble mentally, forgetting what I am saying mid sentence, confusing, and now I keep getting angry at people just in simple situations! Like when I am in a shop and I am yawning uncontrolablly.. And they make jokes like oh are we keeping you up? Or when my boyfriend is doing all my shopping packing and I am just standing there and the check put person gives me i look, I feel like I need to wear a badge that says I'm dying leave me alone! The problem is I am young and have bleach blonde hair and people would never think for a second that I am I'll, even when I have to use my walking stick people stare at me... I know this is me and not them.. But does anyone have a way to speed up this coming to terms with things? I am a lovely person and I hate being this angry person.