About 2 months ago, I started noticing chunks of my face rapidly atrophying - nose cartilage and around eyes especially, but also my jaw bone decreased by almost half, causing my friends to ask what had happened to my face.
I told the doctors - they insinuated I was crazy. It continued.
I became very sick. Completely fatigued. Terrible acid reflux and digestive problems. Unable to speak properly. Unable to hold items of any strength. *Constant breathing problems* - if I hold my head to a certain side - I cannot breathe or swallow - I am constantly trying to find a position to breathe in.
I then noticed the entire back of my head tissue had gone and a lot of the support from my neck (I started wearing a neck brace to feel better).
A week later it spread to my body and I began feeling structurally unsupported, especially as a lot of cartilage in my hip and lower back just disappeared. I've fallen twice - once in a public place which was particularly painful.
I made trips to several GPs in the same surgery, A&E and they all basically insinuated I was mentally ill and to come back if I was dying (this is coming from a previously completely fit and healthy 29 year old with practical no health issues history).
I kept getting asked if I was stressed - I was perfectly happy before it happened - loved my job, went gym every other day, active social life - happiest I'd been in ages. They wouldn't listen and referred me to a mental health specialist, despite me insisting my only anxiety was because I couldn't breathe and was losing my body.
They remarked on my strangely situated head (it now leans far to the right due to less support on one side), flat feet and skeletal frame but told me those things could easily have been like that before and I didn't notice them (my thoughts on that are not PG enough for a family website) and that I could have lost weight (I hadn't).
So I began rapidly googling and it seems rapidly progressing oesteoperosis or relapsing polychondritis are my only 2 options in terms of cartilage loss.
It seems to fit much more with RP and I NEED a diagnosis fast or I know I don't have long. Every day my breathing gets worse and I can bearly sit up properly.
My breathing is worse due to pain around my chest/ribs and I now need a walking stick to walk because I am so fragile. My body feels like it's going to collapse.
My figure is tiny and skeletal (which again, docs are attributing to weight loss despite the fact that the actual fat is still there).
I am in CONSTANT pain, especially in my trachea/throat area and my breathing is of the greatest concern to me.
They don't seem to understand that despite the fact that I CAN breathe, it's very difficult for me due to the structural changes.
It gets worse every day and I don't have long to get this under control before it does irreversible damage.
My only chance for a quick diagnosis is a PET-CT scan.
My questions are:
- How can I convince a consultant rheumatologist on the first consultation to refer me? (I have the means and the appointment to do this privately). Is this at all likely/possible?
- He is part of the Nuffield Hospital. They do not offer PET-CT so my appointment is with another provider (but unfortunately they need a surgeon referral from a different hospital). Will this markedly decrease my chance of referring me? (I assume the surgeons get a cut when they refer patients for scans within their own hospitals)
Help appreciated massively,
Sarah