Hi, I just wondered if anyone here has experience of adoption and having lupus?? I want to know if it is possible or if I would be declined straight away due to having lupus and aps?
I have 2 small children aged 1yr and 4 years but I'd love to have more children but am too scared of the risks with having aps. Have been so lucky to have my 2 beautiful children and don't want to risk anything happening to me or a baby. I wouldn't want to leave my 2 without a mother so cannot take that risk.
So has anyone here adopted or know of anyone that has when having this type of illness?
I know it's a strange question but I think about it all the time and want to know if they will just say no as soon as they find out I have these medical problems.
My 2 children are so lucky and so well cared for I'd love to be able to give that to other children too. Yes some days I do struggle but my children are number one and they do not suffer because of my problems, and I worry that people will think I couldn't manage anymore children but what's the difference in us adopting than me becoming pregnant again?!