Advice sought.

[DJB74]

Good morning all. I was wondering are there people here that has experienced or is experiencing some type of attachment disorder or compulsive behavior due to their anxiety or depression. I really would like to talk to someone that feels like they have or are. I am married and have had ups and downs on both parties but it seems like I've always gotten myself into other relationships that start out based on common interests and bloom into deeper relationships that involve sometimes more intimate feelings. So I'm trying to decide is this a character flaw or due to my disorders so I can be healthier all the way around. I realize it's my fault and I'm not trying to not be accountable but just trying to figure out the root of some of my issues. Is it insecurity, curiosity because I've only been with one woman in my life? I would just like some honest one on one feedback to help me gain a deeper understanding of why I behave the way I do. Thank you in advance.

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Hello

It's really difficult to understand what you are asking, I think there are a few typos.

Also this isn't really a forum for the kind of advice you seem to be seeking. It would be irresponsible to give any when people don't know your personal history.

I might be an idea to see a counsellor. Good luck.

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Hello DJB74

I had to read your post carefully so I could try and get what you were asking and I think I have hopefully

I do think it could be a combination of all the things that you have mentioned

If your relationship at home is rocky at times then sometimes others even that start out as friends we can start thinking we have feelings for , maybe they are making us laugh , maybe they are making us feel like we are interesting , maybe they are making us feel that self worth that we lack , but remember

The Grass is never greener on the other side

I think these feelings are normal for some but need to be sorted out and if you have not had Counselling that would be the best place to start

Take Care x

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Hi there ~ no matter what your problems are~ there is always someone on here to listen to you. We don't always have the answers ~ but sometimes just writing it all down can get it off your chest and make you feel a bit better.

Every member on here is valued and we have a fantastic admin in lulu ~ who always answers people's posts.Sorry for late reply but have just picked up your post 🙂