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my coronary illness

I was living a very successful and happy life. At that point, I met the adoration for my life. Every last bit of it was occurring truly rapidly. In any case, it is was simply stunning. We chose to have babies, yet after our marriage. Following a couple of months, he proposed me and we got hitched. Returning once again from the special night I was not feeling admirable. My DH took me to the specialist and got the awful news of my coronary illness. We both were extremely vexed about my condition. He extremely adored kids yet we can't have any. He never left me. Regardless he cherishes me to such an extent. I am only here to impart my story to you individuals. I trust there will be women having a circumstance like mine too. I want to enjoy all that life has to offer to all of you. Infant tidy to every one of you.

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I am sorry to hear about your illness. Do you have any further checkups and tests? I wish you to be a mother soon. What did your doctors suggested you? I would like to suggest you to go for IVF. It will be the best option for you. Take special care of your diet and health. Good luck.

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Hi there, dear. So sorry to hear that. Consult a cardiologist and a fertility speciaist before ttc. Who know? It might be possible. I wish you speedy recovery. Good luck.

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It's sad to hear you story. I felt sorry. What can be done to change this but there's a solution to your fruitlessness. you guys can visit a clinic in Ukraine. God has blessed me with twins. When we got the news that I am not going to be a mother I felt heart broken. A friend of mine suggested me a clinic. we had a surrogate mother. And now its all a blessing.

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Hey dear. Your post grabbed my attention as it is the cause of my infertility too. I have been through the same. So don't worry. I got your back. You are gonna be fine. You will have your own kids. There are other ways to have kids. You can adopt a baby. If you don't want to, you can go for surrogacy. I went for that. Just don't feel sad about your disease. It happens with a lot of people. You are not alone

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Yes surrogacy is the way out for many couples. We're among them. I was born without womb so that was not a secret I'll never be a mom. But this didn't make things easier. Even worse I should say. When you simply live and expect and hope and then it turns out you have issues - at least you had that tiny hopeful period. For me the situation was clear from the very begining. I knew I'll have to tell my partner, then a dh I can't have kids myself. I imagined what should be said in this case hundreds od times but when it was high time I got completely lost. I've never pictured dh's eyes full of sorrow for me. And that it all would make me feel increadibly miserable. I guess these are the emotions all women endure when knowing they're infertile..And I'm not the exception. With all our needs we finally applied for surrogacy at a clinic overseas. This was a tough path to go through. All the family seemed not too much supportive. They thought we could make better choice. I thought I'd never trust them again. At time I needed their help the most they quitted leaving us empty handed with all our troubles in our heads..That was unfair. I think I's never forgive..

So one day we found ourselves at the clinic's doorstep hesitating what the treatment will bring us..Feeling nervous and excited at the same time..

Now our sweety is with us. Our beautiful Laria, small miracle created far away from home. Our only blessing in the entire world. We aren't that close with the relatives any more. And I don't know whether this would ever change. We have each other. My beautiful daughter and dh, a rock of support as usual and me..

Hope everyone gets her luck at the end. Babydust to all of you, brave worriors :)

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Hey, how are the things going? I'm so sorry to hear about everyone's issues here. Seems there are so many of us struggling. I wish there were just fewer. We don't deserve this. I hope you've already found the way out. Would love to hear some of the news. Wish you the best!

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Just in case you might have been considering surrogacy I found this nice blog: asiu.us. There the Ameriacn couple is telling about their overseas journey. It's written in details. Highlighting all pros and cons. Every smallest detail. One can also contact them easily for more insight. Anyway, all the best of luck!

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