2+ months with my Dad in a Coma, where do we turn - ICUsteps

ICUsteps

7,815 members2,474 posts

2+ months with my Dad in a Coma, where do we turn

clloudermilk profile image
0 Replies

My Dad had a subdural hematoma 3 weeks after getting a pacemaker. After 2 brain surgeries in 12 hours , they THINK he had a stroke. He has been comatose since 4/6/17, he has been off the ventilator for weeks but is rarely responsive. His pupils are minimally responsive. I am trying to have faith and help my Mom stay well and positive, they are both 73 and live 8 hours from me. I've been travelling a lot! With a Glascow score of 3, they are saying he will never awaken.

Worst part is the doctor and caseworker are horrible. He is in a critical care 40 bed hospital in Gainesville, FL, they say he can't stay there because he doesn't need critical care but, no skilled nursing facility will take him because he is comatose and still has a trach tube. He has gone as long as 48 hours with the tube capped but the damn doctor refuses to remove it. We are stuck in this gap in care and have no idea how to get him into a facility that can handle his needs and that is closer for my Mom (she' driving 2 hours each way now), so that she can be with him and still be able to care for herself. Any help or advice would be appreciated.

Written by
clloudermilk profile image
clloudermilk
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

My dad is in a Coma..

My dad about 4 days ago went to Walmart to get some ice cream & some drinks. He has asthma so we...
Joeydoda123 profile image

My dad is in artificial coma

Hello, my dad 57 years suffered a severe infarction, currently in resuscitation with artificial...
bartute profile image

Dad is in induced Coma, Questions.

My dads heart stopped twice in an ambulance due to heavy fluid in his lungs. CPR was started right...

My Dad is in a Coma...Will he wake up?

Yesterday morning my dad, 52, was complaining of shortness of breath. He does not have asthma but...
WolfG65 profile image

Dad in a sedated coma

Hi my dad has had to be put into a sedated coma as he has had lung failure and other complications...

Moderation team

Rhyl1 profile image
Rhyl1Moderator
Rhyl1 profile image
Rhyl1Partner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.