Hey! I hope your Christmas was wonderful despite the news with your father.
Care in the hospital is doenedent on so many factors. Unless your loved one has a person to advocate for them, there is a good chance that he/she may not receive the optimum care. I'm very persistent with the nurses. Wash your hands. New gloves. You touch something outside of my mom's body, go clean your hands and grab gloves. Our parents are more susceptible to infections due to being older.
Sepsis is serious. My mom is recovering from septic shock now. I had to file a formal grievance and sit with some members of the ethics board. The vassopressers help maintain a BP, but so long as they are on it... it makes them dependent. So nurses must titrate down (wean off) as soon as possible. Ask the doc about Oral Midodrine. It helps patients get off the drips (IVs) in a short amount time.
Ask his doctors to give you his daily labs. You want to monitor his white blood cells, platelets, hemoglobin, creatinine, BUN and electrolytes. Those tell you how his body is working. What type of antibiotics is he on?
Also is he thirdspacing? Are the fluids going into the skin causing him to swell? Ask for an Albumin and low dose dieuretic regimen to pull it off. He may kind of drift off mentally. Don't get scared. The infection does that to him. Continue to talk to him and orient him even if he doesn't respond. The infection clouds septick shock patients' minds.
Please don't let the doctors pressure you into making any (die with dignity) decisions regarding your dad immediately. Always ask for time to think on it. Set up a meeting with the doctors. Explain your concerns and goals. See what their goals are as well. You guys should be on one accord. Any doctor that fails to communicate or doesn't want to treat your father in the manner you want him to be treated, replace ASAP.
I'm here anytime to answer questions or talk. It's a rough experience. Be prepared and patient.
Get him to ICU. If he has Sepsis, that's an ICU problem unless he is already in Surgical ICU.
Mom is still fighting. Going through this, I've learned so much. Hospitals bank on patients' ignorance. The less you know, the more control they have in the care of your loved one.
Stay on them. If you can, request to have continuity with the nursing staff (try to keep the same nurses in rotation) . It helps with the care. They'll know your dad.
Pneumonia is critical in older patients. Very deadly if not treated aggressively and soon. I'm very happy you are involved. It makes a difference.
As I said before, I'm here to help. I'll pass on any of the information that I know.
I had a similar experience in 2015. I was dangerously ill with urosepsis and septic shock. After going back to general ward my temp kept spiking and I had to go back on antibiotics. They decided to remove all catheters and iv lines as they were the source of infection. I was fine after that. I hope he recovers soon.
Hi my name is Jolynn , my daughter had sepsis from a UTI ,it will be a year in june. She's lost most of her hair and was told she may have a year to live , I'm so scared and I don't understand it. This June will be a year.
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