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surely the most?who would know what is beneficial them or me?for sure i should have been all over this sooner.for sure this time next year my boy will be "coming home" loadsa times.i have sat with people in 2 years i dont know who they are,dont understand who?why?just people who decide...ive been confused and in fairness compliant allowed them to make decisions for my son.this is wrong.they should tell you who they are,what they do.its a scarey thing and im not the type to be intimidated.the worst for someone like me,it makes me vexed.im tired of egos and how they know about sean,.i will do best for my boy from every level,i know him better...

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Has there been a decision on Sean's visit D ? I think we're all agreed that you know him better than anyone else and have always had his best interests at the forefront of your mind & heart... Xx

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Alibongo60

Hi D, what’s happened, sounds like a decision was made without your say so. In the past you were in no fit state to argue against these that think they know best, because then they probably did, you were just a mum with a son with a very serious condition, and may not survive, who didn’t really understand a lot of what was going on, but just wanted what she thought was best for her boy at the time. You have come a long way in a short time, and god help those that are now going to have to explain things, Sean got his genes to survive from somewhere girl. If you need any more work or alterations doing at home you should contact Help For Heroes, they are there to support and help, they worked with our local council and had a wetroom installed in our bathroom for my daughter, please don’t struggle on your own. Love Alice xx

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New_beginning

I hope what ever has happened is acted on quick to bring clarity before you hit the roof, and what or who's rational for decision making without your input with Sean. Sorry your having to deal with more stress and unwanted emotions xx

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