Have been lucky enough to visit with my husband nearly every day this week, and I am worried by some, what I would call delusions. They are violent in nature and he is convinced they really happened. For example he thought our daughter had got herself involved in a drug dealing gang and he had to break into a house and fight them to get her back.he said he had stabbed a man and the police arrived and arrested everyone, i wasn’t sure how to respond, when I said, you may have dreamt it,because she is at home and she is fine.she is 13.he became really cross with me, and said don’t lie to me,I know it happened.
I spoke to the staff nurse before I left,she will let the dr know of my concerns. I know his brain has been through so much, aneurysm removal,stroke, two lots of skull removal,hydrocephalus and a shunt inserted. 5 months on and he is being peg feed, still no spontaneous movement on his left side,his talking is getting better and he remembers things from years ago , but I’m not really sure what happens now. Who decides,no one seems to tell me and drs at the hospital say he is stable and they are really doing anything with him now.
Any insights would be gratefully received, I find myself feeling physically sick with not knowing what’s going to happen or what I should do. I feel awful for asking for help,when he is and has gone through so much,he is the one I would normally turn to, to get me through