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Daughter sadly passed away in February 2022

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Just wanted to pop on to say thank you to everyone who gave me such lovely advice and comments last year after my daughters injury in july 2021.

My daughter remained unresponsive and further tests showed she had some damage to her brain stem that was causing issues. In February this year the decision was made by the hospital to move her to hospice care and she passed away a week later with myself by her side. We are still trying to come to terms with what has happened and adjust to life without her but wanted to update people and say thank you again for the support last year and to wish you all the best in your situations.x

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Dear Parapp, I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. It will have been heartbreaking for you over the months and now your loss will be a million-fold.

I do believe you girl will have felt your presence when you held her hand and talked to her and I hope you can take some comfort in that.

You'll be needing some extra love & care for the foreseeable future ; do look after yourself m'love.

Thinking of you, Cat. x

Hi Parapp, my sincere condolences to you and your family at the loss of your daughter, she obviously put up a very hard fight for such a long time, with you by her side, but survival was not to be. I hope in time you are able to remember the happy memories, I send you love and hugs Alice xx

Dear Parapp,

I am so sorry to hear of your daughter’s passing and wish you and your family condolences, absolutely devastating. Please look after yourself and be kind to yourself, sending you a massive virtual hug XO

Dear Parapp, I am so sorry for the loss of your lovely daughter, you fought bravely for her... I pray now for peace and strength for you and your family xx

I am so sorry to hear that. What a difficult time for you and your loved ones. May she be at peace now xxx

Sincere condolences, I have a couple of daughters and can appreciate how challenging it must be to have lost one.Genuine best wishes xx

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Best wishes to you xx

My thoughts are with you

This is very sad news Indeed P. Can't begin to imagine what you are going through. So sorry x

hi p.can i first say how so very sorry i am(words not enough)for your loss.my regret is that we did not msg each other privately as our situations very similar.i too had "that conversation",doctor telling me little hope etc.looking back,call it fate whatever,this happened over phone(dec 20)during lockdown.as i wasnt allowed to see my boy i refused to make any decision,they had to honour this and put no further pressure on me.i try not to think what i would have done had i seen him at the time,he was banged up really bad thats without the b/injury.and,got to be honest there have been many times since when i have questioned my choices.i would leave you with this and so hope it gives you some comfort p.my son has no recollection of what happened to him,he doesnt remember his time at james cook.we were chatting(well i was)couple weeks ago.he told me he "knew" i was near him and that he remembers my voice and his dog barking.he knew that he was safe.i hope this helps in some small way p.if you ever need to chat i am here for you.much love dxxx

Hi Parapp, please accept my heart felt condolences on the loss of your beautiful daughter. You did your very best as her mother being alongside her throughout her life. I am sure she was aware you were with her listening to your voice and feeling your unconditional love for her.

I send my very best wishes to you and your family. Nanapal x

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