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I won't have romance again in life

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I've decided to stay single in life from now. I don't want more children and I don't like using condoms.

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Pairofboots

A bit too much info maybe. This is possibly where less detail would be better. I wouldn't worry about this much detail at the moment. What will be, will be as far as romance goes. Sex and romance are different entities, one does not equal the other...........

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StaceM8

Hiya Radel, there is the old withdrawal method & most women over 40 would find it difficult to conceive anyway (& no I'm not being ageist, it's just scientific fact - thinking about it, this isn't twitter so probably wouldn't get any woke, illogical backlash anyway, so...... ;o),

Therefore, if U combine the 2, there's very little chance of that happening is there ???

Having sex with someone of a similar age or older, even less likely.

There are also far more things that can be done in the bedroom besides sex anyway.

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Radelagun in reply toStaceM8

Well, I'm thinking that I might never have sex again, sadly. Seems sensible.

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StaceM8 in reply toRadelagun

Why would U say that, don't get it ???

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RobHH

I don't understand - if you don't want children, you can have a vasectomy with a local anaesthetic and be in and out of the hospital in a couple of hours. It's painless and doesn't cause any problems afterwards. Alternatively, you could date women around your age or slightly older.

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Radelagun in reply toRobHH

I hear you about a vasectomy, so it's just STDs then.

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StaceM8 in reply toRadelagun

I assume you are lookin to go down the casual sex / one night stand route, which tbh sexual diseases aren't as common as U get older (providing U are sleeping with women over 40) & besides the more common ones are easy t get rid of.

And if you are looking for a more committed relationship, STD's shouldn't be an issue

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Radelagun

Btw, I appreciate the good feedback.

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