This month in May I realised I hit a limit, took over a year to reach out. Then when I reached out informed only enablement services available for husband (42), following week BI Team visited and gave devastating news; my husband not at stage for BI OT to access community safely and clinical psychologist will do more home visits to support on behaviour.
In 14months, I have solely been on my own with two children now 3 & 15, working, no support, so reflecting on that meeting I attempted with Headway again and offered Family Support which includes support meetings; they understand husband will not initially attend but in time maybe we go together.
I'm hoping on call in week, whether I can go via occupational health to have the time off as already with medical meetings,childcare I'm continuing to struggle with demands and work continue to pressure me with workload that even requesting reduced hours I didnt do due to demands and timescales.
But I dont know what to expect from meetings, I've barely talked about the past 14months verbally think 3 times, as struggling to come to terms with this, but also informed I'm coming out of autopilot stage reason limit hit now.
I just want to feel prepared with what to expect with support group. Many Thanks x