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My partner is moving back to Italy!?!?

I don’t want too because I have a little support here in London. And my Italian is terrible.. I am going to have to find a new flat as the one we live in is in his name .i am not working and the benefits people froze my esa and I’m waiting on pip . This could not have come at a worse time . I’m being positive and looking to sort my self out .ill get on to the council people and see what’s what. It’s going to be a hard month or so before he goes , we have talked of course lots.but he can’t not go it’s in his best interest .so ya that’s me for now . Have a great day all ✅

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steve55

so why cant you go with him, would he like you to? great way to learn a second langauge.

if you decide youre definatley not going with him, my suggestion would be to get as much medical evidence as you can before going to the council to get a flat as a vulnerable person.

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cat3

I'm sorry you have all that upheaval to deal with Pat ; It's tough moving home after a relationship has ended, even with good health..........

We're always here for back up as you know m'dear. xx

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Mufc

Hi it’s a hard life . My husband has a new girlfriend and is trying to take my money to entertain her. With it being a bank holiday weekend my solicitor is away. He used my car and my disability and money that my solicitor keeps to entertain her. He has turned my daughter against me so it’s going to be a bad weekend for me too. Maybe we can keep each other entertained and ? Prevent us feeling so alone😢

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Nikkisue in reply to Mufc

Oh bless you don’t worry it maybe a bank hol weekend but we are here to. Talk if you need us anytime xxx

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Mufc in reply to Nikkisue

Thank you very much but sitting here thinking about it is making me cry.

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Nikkisue in reply to Mufc

Don’t come on get up and do something you can’t do anything about it your a good person just find something to do to take your mind off it xxx

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Mufc in reply to Nikkisue

It’s difficult for me to move around due to my disability so to be safe when I am upset it is better to sit otherwise I may fall😩

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Nikkisue in reply to Mufc

Ok can u get into garden a bit of sunlight may help start reading a book just to take ur mind off it all xx

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Mufc

Thanks for your comments you are making me remember I was and still am a very strong person. So he loss not mine😃😃

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