In 2014 my husband suffered servia headache for weeks 2 mounths later went on to have 2 bleeds and a ruptured anurisam.
He was verry close to death practically dead actually he thought for life,the day they told us we may need to consider turning machines of he started responding
He was in hospital mounths and in June 2016 finished 18 mounths of rehabilitation
He's some physical problems like right sides weekness and slightly blind but his cognegitive defects are the worst his memory is practaclly non existent
He's littritly a different person it's like the man 2 years ago died that night and we was given a new one,one we just have to have
It's a strange feeling one that no one else understands to everyone else my husband survived and is hear to tell the tale .but it is not him !!
He's had his 2 year post medical and prognosis and although he shudnt get any worse he will not get any better what we have is what we have
Don't get me rong I'm so so grateful he survived and he's home now with me and are 5 children so in a way I like to think iv eccepted what's happened and getting on with life but there's still something I just Carnt get over it all it littritly haunts me
The docters have said he's a very unheard of strange case as although he's mobile can do most things for himself wailk tailk all that stuff he's cognegitive function is one of the worse he's seen
There that much brain damige he itha wouldn't of expected him to be alive or if he was be servialy mentally and physically disabled
From the part of the brain that's damiged he shudnt be wailking or tailking but he can and if you don't no him unless you had a long conversation with him you wouldn't no ther was anything rong
But how av you all come to terms with it and moved forwould with life
Ps sorry about the spelling xx