Losing focus,an head

[jacs17]

before I say anything hope u all Have the best chrimbo;but so dunno how to deal with today,how to tell a person whose angry,saying your lying,my head went blank,how can you explain what u dunno how to;plus it happened today 2 years ago

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So sorry that you feel so bad. I don't understand what you are trying to tell us, how can we help?

[TiredNan]

Hi jacs,

You sound really distressed, tell us a bit more out what has happened...when you are up to it.

We will do our best to support.

In the meantime sending you a big hug , I will look in here later and there are always lovely people here who understand.

Love and a big hug.

TiredNan

x

[jacs17 in reply to TiredNan]

I have tried my life changed when attacked 2 years same date last night,bleeds to the brain,then lets just say my family were no support,m trying to get to grips with abbreviations here just he was done caught an jailed.if you look on my profile tried to put as much as I could,.im actually now having to be moved by 23 January to were im not sure,thisa scares me topo but its for my health benefit too

[TiredNan]

Me again

Have caught up with what you have told us on here before. I'm so sorry.

I am glad he was jailed, it must have been so scary for you going through all the court stuff.

PTSD is very frightening, I have it myself.

Have you had any mental health support for this?

Not that there is much about I know. Victim support can be helpful too.. here is a link if you click on it

victimsupport.org.uk/more-u...

As for family, they can be very unkind.... but that is their problem to live with. But it can be very hurtful... got the t shirt on that one myself..

Please do not blame yourself at all ok?

Abbreviations on here , I have to google words. I am learning all the jargon bit by bit .

Never be afraid to just post and ask someone to explain, i am sure they will .

Worrying about the move for you... if it helps your health though this is positive perhaps. Tell us more when you feel up to it.

Keep shouting up as much as you want to. Always someone along to reply..

Safe hug and love

Take care you and know that people here care.

TN x

[jacs17]

thanks hun ,i may of sounded harsh on the mans status,but way I myself have had to realise people are unkind an blunt.So now I try looking both ways if I can I cant do cbt,here as too dangerous,housebound on second floor flat LOL hay cops moved me here after attack;to he;ll,needless to say good news I hope im getting moved b4 the 23 january.Environmental health our prosecuting my landlords,dasmp issues unsafe wall;mice then earth quakes so I been hit with my head still in the past 2 years ago;so move has to be good as healthsv worsening here as I reinact,attack in sleep so they need to get me in adapted place to be able to help me

[jacs17]

unsteady phsoratic,oesteo,arthritis fibromyalgia;brain bleeds an more to come oh epilepsy too LOL but hay thanks an hope you have a good chrimbo;me I wanna just get it over with,as time I was attacked 22 December so not a good time for me as was bat an brush pole so thanks genuinely mean that when isolated its hard to then open up uno

[TiredNan]

Blinking heck Jacs, thats a right list of stuff there, rooting for you.

Not a great fan of cbt for the same reasons as you. The place you are in sounds a hell hole so good if you can be moved then.

I am not good at Christmas and new year either. Will watch "The Great Escape" if it is on at Christmas and think of you ha ha.

It is hard to open up and the internet is a great place but also sometimes eejits too. That is why I like this little forum. Genuine people.

Sending you a mince pie... keep it away from the mice. If it is a bit hard then you can use it as a door stop.

All the best and catch you up soon.

Love

TN x

[jacs17 in reply to TiredNan]

nice one an thanks ya a diamond maybe the mince in pie talking ha ha night

[TiredNan]

Hey just looking in on you , hope you are surviving Christmas.

All good wishes x

[jacs17]

Yes t become more quiet an feeling a bit lost an ill but thanks as means alot hope u had a good chhristmas

[TiredNan in reply to jacs17]

hi Jacs, sorry I'm late here looking in.

Christmas was ok thanks.... I painted the skirting board in the bedroom and had a fry up...

Family away or working shifts so it was nice and quiet.

I hope that you are coming through all of this, nearly out the other side and hoping the coming year is a better one for you.

love and hugs

TN xxx