Another question I know.
I have been reading some posts(ol and new) about carers trying to cope with partners after a bi and the change in them.
Just wondering have you been offered any sort of counselling , mainly bereavement.
I know this sounds a strange comment, but think about it. Your partner as they were before may have gone for good. In their place is a new or different versio of them.
I ask this because my wife struggled with the new me and felt she was cheating on the old me for loving the new me.
She had never had chance to grieve fully for the loss of the old me. This nearly tore our marrage apart. It may not have been the only problem we had but it stopped us moving on.
Remember a bi affects more than just the person that it happens to.
Its a brave step to admit that you as a carer may need help. After all you are normally fighting on our behalf. But please remember without you fighting for us we would be worse off and totally lost.
I hope this adbice does not offend any one....if it does I appologise.