Thank you all for your kind words. It really helps to know I've people who understand.
I have organised a weekend away for us both this week so looking forward to it
I will so though i got really cross with marks sister yesterday she was going on about a leaking radiator which i knew she was expecting mark to sort out. ....which he has always done for her in the past. ..
I could see he was getting wound up and stressed and she told him to calm down!
I just flipped. ....sort yiur own problems out i said. Mark doesn't need this stress anymore
They need to understand mark is just not ready for stress
It took me ages to make him understand it's not his problem and calm him down 😕
Anyway onwards and upwards
Thank you for your help xx